"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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self hypnosis request?

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someone on this forum posted a self hypnosis mp3 project for overcoming approach anxiety a while ago. I've listened to it several times and it has done a good job of helping my anxiety out. I don't feel as nervous when i try to talk to women now that i first met. though i do have a problem for escalation. i don't know why, but when i reach the stage when i'm holding hands with a girl, i feel very awkward in my own skin and just get scared to escalate. sometimes they escalate it themselves which is pretty discouraging. so to whoever did the approach anxiety self hypnosis mp3, may i request one for escalation as well? greatly appreciated if it can be done.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Are you sure that the person actually made it themselves? I'm thinking it might just be Steve P or Hypnotica.

In my opinion you can't just sit in your room and listen to hypnosis tapes and experct to get rid of approach anxiety. You have to get out there and approach! You might disagree, but I'm sure a lot of people will agree with me.

By the way I am not discounting hypnosis, I like it. But I think it should just be used as a supplement and can definately never replace action.
 

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i forget where the first one can be found, someone posted a thread about it a long time ago so you might have to look yourself.

i know that there is no substitute for experience, but these self hypnosis audios do help out a lot though, kind of like protein shakes to body builders.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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i don't think the guy who made the last one saw this thread. well is there any good advice for escalation? maybe even some old threads about it?
 
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