"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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self hypnosis request?

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someone on this forum posted a self hypnosis mp3 project for overcoming approach anxiety a while ago. I've listened to it several times and it has done a good job of helping my anxiety out. I don't feel as nervous when i try to talk to women now that i first met. though i do have a problem for escalation. i don't know why, but when i reach the stage when i'm holding hands with a girl, i feel very awkward in my own skin and just get scared to escalate. sometimes they escalate it themselves which is pretty discouraging. so to whoever did the approach anxiety self hypnosis mp3, may i request one for escalation as well? greatly appreciated if it can be done.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Are you sure that the person actually made it themselves? I'm thinking it might just be Steve P or Hypnotica.

In my opinion you can't just sit in your room and listen to hypnosis tapes and experct to get rid of approach anxiety. You have to get out there and approach! You might disagree, but I'm sure a lot of people will agree with me.

By the way I am not discounting hypnosis, I like it. But I think it should just be used as a supplement and can definately never replace action.
 
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i forget where the first one can be found, someone posted a thread about it a long time ago so you might have to look yourself.

i know that there is no substitute for experience, but these self hypnosis audios do help out a lot though, kind of like protein shakes to body builders.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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i don't think the guy who made the last one saw this thread. well is there any good advice for escalation? maybe even some old threads about it?
 
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