"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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self hypnosis request?

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someone on this forum posted a self hypnosis mp3 project for overcoming approach anxiety a while ago. I've listened to it several times and it has done a good job of helping my anxiety out. I don't feel as nervous when i try to talk to women now that i first met. though i do have a problem for escalation. i don't know why, but when i reach the stage when i'm holding hands with a girl, i feel very awkward in my own skin and just get scared to escalate. sometimes they escalate it themselves which is pretty discouraging. so to whoever did the approach anxiety self hypnosis mp3, may i request one for escalation as well? greatly appreciated if it can be done.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Are you sure that the person actually made it themselves? I'm thinking it might just be Steve P or Hypnotica.

In my opinion you can't just sit in your room and listen to hypnosis tapes and experct to get rid of approach anxiety. You have to get out there and approach! You might disagree, but I'm sure a lot of people will agree with me.

By the way I am not discounting hypnosis, I like it. But I think it should just be used as a supplement and can definately never replace action.
 

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i forget where the first one can be found, someone posted a thread about it a long time ago so you might have to look yourself.

i know that there is no substitute for experience, but these self hypnosis audios do help out a lot though, kind of like protein shakes to body builders.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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i don't think the guy who made the last one saw this thread. well is there any good advice for escalation? maybe even some old threads about it?
 
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