MetalFortress
Master Don Juan
THIS IS STUPID AS HELL, LOCK THREAD PLEASE
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Lol i agree. I got off topic and sidetracked and a bit immature. I won't deny that. This will be the last post and i won't go that in the future.Originally posted by MetalFortress
THIS IS STUPID AS HELL, LOCK THREAD PLEASE
Smart move...you would lose.Originally posted by nomorechump
I was only teasing him. I know. We aren't fighting anymore. I respect my elders and won't argue with you b/c ill probably lose anyways :S
You mind to try on a friendly basis lol? Maybe see how bad you can bash me?Originally posted by Wyldfire
Smart move...you would lose.![]()
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Have funOriginally posted by Blizzard128
But I am.
http://home.stoik.com/uploaded/P1010148.jpg
Those looks, with a '69 Nova blasting Metallica to boot.
Well, I'll ttyl. Going to a party...
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Are you sure mommy didn't tuck you in for bedtime?Originally posted by Blizzard128
Yeah, sure. He's another pic of me in the morning in a hotel after I fk'd my g/f on vacation.
http://home.stoik.com/uploaded/Image5.jpg
Metallica blows.Originally posted by Blizzard128
But I am.
http://home.stoik.com/uploaded/P1010148.jpg
Those looks, with a '69 Nova blasting Metallica to boot.
Well, I'll ttyl. Going to a party...
admitting another man is goodlooking does not make you gay you fvckin homophobe.Originally posted by nomorechump
You seem to really enough scrunitizing the looks of fellow men. That is a homosexual tendency. Nothing against gays, but are you homosexual or something because it sure sounds so.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.