MetalFortress
Master Don Juan
THIS IS STUPID AS HELL, LOCK THREAD PLEASE
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Lol i agree. I got off topic and sidetracked and a bit immature. I won't deny that. This will be the last post and i won't go that in the future.Originally posted by MetalFortress
THIS IS STUPID AS HELL, LOCK THREAD PLEASE
Smart move...you would lose.Originally posted by nomorechump
I was only teasing him. I know. We aren't fighting anymore. I respect my elders and won't argue with you b/c ill probably lose anyways :S
You mind to try on a friendly basis lol? Maybe see how bad you can bash me?Originally posted by Wyldfire
Smart move...you would lose.![]()
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
Have funOriginally posted by Blizzard128
But I am.
http://home.stoik.com/uploaded/P1010148.jpg
Those looks, with a '69 Nova blasting Metallica to boot.
Well, I'll ttyl. Going to a party...
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Are you sure mommy didn't tuck you in for bedtime?Originally posted by Blizzard128
Yeah, sure. He's another pic of me in the morning in a hotel after I fk'd my g/f on vacation.
http://home.stoik.com/uploaded/Image5.jpg
Metallica blows.Originally posted by Blizzard128
But I am.
http://home.stoik.com/uploaded/P1010148.jpg
Those looks, with a '69 Nova blasting Metallica to boot.
Well, I'll ttyl. Going to a party...
admitting another man is goodlooking does not make you gay you fvckin homophobe.Originally posted by nomorechump
You seem to really enough scrunitizing the looks of fellow men. That is a homosexual tendency. Nothing against gays, but are you homosexual or something because it sure sounds so.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.