selfmademob
Banned
Anyone in San Antonio or surrounding areas?
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
San Antonio, TX
- Thread starter selfmademob
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
selfmademob
Banned
There's gotta be someone...
selfmademob
Banned
Doing my monthly San Antonio check!
Valdez
Don Juan
SA here
Ace of Flames
Master Don Juan
- Joined
- Jan 11, 2006
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I'm in Houston. I tried to find someone before, but there doesn't seem to be many Texan DJ's around. Weird.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
LA_Chico
Senior Don Juan
i know dis one cat glen in houston
selfmademob
Banned
hey Valdez, do u got an Instant Messenger or email?
Valdez
Don Juan
hit me up on myspace at www.myspace.com/bvaldez
LA_Chico
Senior Don Juan
yo san antonio is a cool city bro
selfmademob
Banned
I'm going to be in San Antonio for a few weeks, so if anyone out there is in that area, just send me a Private Message or post here
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
selfmademob
Banned
do you have AIM or MSN messenger? send me a PM
KillingTime
Senior Don Juan
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yep, sa here, pm me if ya'll want my myspace... i dont really use the profile but i use it as an email pretty much
chippendale
Don Juan
- Joined
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im 3 hours away from SA
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.