selfmademob
Banned
Anyone in San Antonio or surrounding areas?
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
San Antonio, TX
- Thread starter selfmademob
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
selfmademob
Banned
There's gotta be someone...
selfmademob
Banned
Doing my monthly San Antonio check!
Valdez
Don Juan
SA here
Ace of Flames
Master Don Juan
- Joined
- Jan 11, 2006
- Messages
- 1,500
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I'm in Houston. I tried to find someone before, but there doesn't seem to be many Texan DJ's around. Weird.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
LA_Chico
Senior Don Juan
i know dis one cat glen in houston
selfmademob
Banned
hey Valdez, do u got an Instant Messenger or email?
Valdez
Don Juan
hit me up on myspace at www.myspace.com/bvaldez
LA_Chico
Senior Don Juan
yo san antonio is a cool city bro
selfmademob
Banned
I'm going to be in San Antonio for a few weeks, so if anyone out there is in that area, just send me a Private Message or post here
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
selfmademob
Banned
do you have AIM or MSN messenger? send me a PM
KillingTime
Senior Don Juan
- Joined
- Mar 21, 2004
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- 341
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yep, sa here, pm me if ya'll want my myspace... i dont really use the profile but i use it as an email pretty much
chippendale
Don Juan
- Joined
- Nov 20, 2005
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im 3 hours away from SA
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.