selfmademob
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Anyone in San Antonio or surrounding areas?
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
San Antonio, TX
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
selfmademob
Banned
There's gotta be someone...
selfmademob
Banned
Doing my monthly San Antonio check!
Valdez
Don Juan
SA here
Ace of Flames
Master Don Juan
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- Jan 11, 2006
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I'm in Houston. I tried to find someone before, but there doesn't seem to be many Texan DJ's around. Weird.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
LA_Chico
Senior Don Juan
i know dis one cat glen in houston
selfmademob
Banned
hey Valdez, do u got an Instant Messenger or email?
Valdez
Don Juan
hit me up on myspace at www.myspace.com/bvaldez
LA_Chico
Senior Don Juan
yo san antonio is a cool city bro
selfmademob
Banned
I'm going to be in San Antonio for a few weeks, so if anyone out there is in that area, just send me a Private Message or post here
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
selfmademob
Banned
do you have AIM or MSN messenger? send me a PM
KillingTime
Senior Don Juan
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yep, sa here, pm me if ya'll want my myspace... i dont really use the profile but i use it as an email pretty much
chippendale
Don Juan
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im 3 hours away from SA
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.