selfmademob
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Anyone in San Antonio or surrounding areas?
Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
San Antonio, TX
- Thread starter selfmademob
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
selfmademob
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There's gotta be someone...
selfmademob
Banned
Doing my monthly San Antonio check!
Valdez
Don Juan
SA here
Ace of Flames
Master Don Juan
- Joined
- Jan 11, 2006
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I'm in Houston. I tried to find someone before, but there doesn't seem to be many Texan DJ's around. Weird.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
LA_Chico
Senior Don Juan
i know dis one cat glen in houston
selfmademob
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hey Valdez, do u got an Instant Messenger or email?
Valdez
Don Juan
hit me up on myspace at www.myspace.com/bvaldez
LA_Chico
Senior Don Juan
yo san antonio is a cool city bro
selfmademob
Banned
I'm going to be in San Antonio for a few weeks, so if anyone out there is in that area, just send me a Private Message or post here
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
selfmademob
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do you have AIM or MSN messenger? send me a PM
KillingTime
Senior Don Juan
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yep, sa here, pm me if ya'll want my myspace... i dont really use the profile but i use it as an email pretty much
chippendale
Don Juan
- Joined
- Nov 20, 2005
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im 3 hours away from SA
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.