selfmademob
Banned
Anyone in San Antonio or surrounding areas?
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
San Antonio, TX
- Thread starter selfmademob
- Start date
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
selfmademob
Banned
There's gotta be someone...
selfmademob
Banned
Doing my monthly San Antonio check!
Valdez
Don Juan
SA here
Ace of Flames
Master Don Juan
- Joined
- Jan 11, 2006
- Messages
- 1,500
- Reaction score
- 16
I'm in Houston. I tried to find someone before, but there doesn't seem to be many Texan DJ's around. Weird.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
LA_Chico
Senior Don Juan
i know dis one cat glen in houston
selfmademob
Banned
hey Valdez, do u got an Instant Messenger or email?
Valdez
Don Juan
hit me up on myspace at www.myspace.com/bvaldez
LA_Chico
Senior Don Juan
yo san antonio is a cool city bro
selfmademob
Banned
I'm going to be in San Antonio for a few weeks, so if anyone out there is in that area, just send me a Private Message or post here
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
selfmademob
Banned
do you have AIM or MSN messenger? send me a PM
KillingTime
Senior Don Juan
- Joined
- Mar 21, 2004
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- 341
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yep, sa here, pm me if ya'll want my myspace... i dont really use the profile but i use it as an email pretty much
chippendale
Don Juan
- Joined
- Nov 20, 2005
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- 17
- Reaction score
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im 3 hours away from SA
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.