aray808311
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Just checking if there was anyone in San Antonio or Austin Texas that wanted to meet up to go out and approach. I live in San Antonio, but I am happy to travel to Austin.
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
San Antonio/Austin
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Pierce Manhammer
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I certainly enjoyed Austin a few years back before HP and Rackspace really took off guess 2014 or around there.
Back then it was the Dirty 6th - I had great time UT made it a paradise on earth a guy in his 40’s dating coeds and 20-something’s. Back then HBs would open you down there, not sure if it’s stil like that. SBSW was literally insane. But it sure seemed everyone knew everyone and/or had slept with them…
good luck guys
Back then it was the Dirty 6th - I had great time UT made it a paradise on earth a guy in his 40’s dating coeds and 20-something’s. Back then HBs would open you down there, not sure if it’s stil like that. SBSW was literally insane. But it sure seemed everyone knew everyone and/or had slept with them…
good luck guys
Yeah, the Dirty 6th is still going strong haha Although it's evolved a bit. There is quite a few other districts to check out which is nice and there is still quite a bit of talent out here for sure. Haven't seen a lot of women hitting on guys though. There is still time to see it though haha
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
BillyPilgrim
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Lol and San Antonio is a military town with Big Ole Women
Houston actually seems fairly good. Whenever I test out new online openers, I use that market and get better responses than I do in my local market using the same openers once perfected (Phx/Scottsdale).
LMFAO haha this has me rolling hahahaha
SW15
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That's the trade off with San Antonio. The women are not as good looking as Dallas, but the attitudes are a little bit better.
Both Houston and San Antonio have reputations for obesity.
I like the Fort Worth scene.
aray808311
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aray808311
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lol i always think of this for san antonio
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.