aray808311
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Just checking if there was anyone in San Antonio or Austin Texas that wanted to meet up to go out and approach. I live in San Antonio, but I am happy to travel to Austin.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
San Antonio/Austin
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
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I certainly enjoyed Austin a few years back before HP and Rackspace really took off guess 2014 or around there.
Back then it was the Dirty 6th - I had great time UT made it a paradise on earth a guy in his 40’s dating coeds and 20-something’s. Back then HBs would open you down there, not sure if it’s stil like that. SBSW was literally insane. But it sure seemed everyone knew everyone and/or had slept with them…
good luck guys
Back then it was the Dirty 6th - I had great time UT made it a paradise on earth a guy in his 40’s dating coeds and 20-something’s. Back then HBs would open you down there, not sure if it’s stil like that. SBSW was literally insane. But it sure seemed everyone knew everyone and/or had slept with them…
good luck guys
Yeah, the Dirty 6th is still going strong haha Although it's evolved a bit. There is quite a few other districts to check out which is nice and there is still quite a bit of talent out here for sure. Haven't seen a lot of women hitting on guys though. There is still time to see it though haha
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
BillyPilgrim
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Lol and San Antonio is a military town with Big Ole Women
Houston actually seems fairly good. Whenever I test out new online openers, I use that market and get better responses than I do in my local market using the same openers once perfected (Phx/Scottsdale).
LMFAO haha this has me rolling hahahaha
SW15
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That's the trade off with San Antonio. The women are not as good looking as Dallas, but the attitudes are a little bit better.
Both Houston and San Antonio have reputations for obesity.
I like the Fort Worth scene.
aray808311
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aray808311
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lol i always think of this for san antonio
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.