aray808311
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Just checking if there was anyone in San Antonio or Austin Texas that wanted to meet up to go out and approach. I live in San Antonio, but I am happy to travel to Austin.
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
San Antonio/Austin
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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I certainly enjoyed Austin a few years back before HP and Rackspace really took off guess 2014 or around there.
Back then it was the Dirty 6th - I had great time UT made it a paradise on earth a guy in his 40’s dating coeds and 20-something’s. Back then HBs would open you down there, not sure if it’s stil like that. SBSW was literally insane. But it sure seemed everyone knew everyone and/or had slept with them…
good luck guys
Back then it was the Dirty 6th - I had great time UT made it a paradise on earth a guy in his 40’s dating coeds and 20-something’s. Back then HBs would open you down there, not sure if it’s stil like that. SBSW was literally insane. But it sure seemed everyone knew everyone and/or had slept with them…
good luck guys
Yeah, the Dirty 6th is still going strong haha Although it's evolved a bit. There is quite a few other districts to check out which is nice and there is still quite a bit of talent out here for sure. Haven't seen a lot of women hitting on guys though. There is still time to see it though haha
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
BillyPilgrim
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Lol and San Antonio is a military town with Big Ole Women
Houston actually seems fairly good. Whenever I test out new online openers, I use that market and get better responses than I do in my local market using the same openers once perfected (Phx/Scottsdale).
LMFAO haha this has me rolling hahahaha
SW15
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That's the trade off with San Antonio. The women are not as good looking as Dallas, but the attitudes are a little bit better.
Both Houston and San Antonio have reputations for obesity.
I like the Fort Worth scene.
aray808311
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aray808311
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lol i always think of this for san antonio
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.