"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

Read more...

San Antonio/Austin

aray808311

Don Juan
Joined
Jan 15, 2019
Messages
40
Reaction score
6
Age
33
Just checking if there was anyone in San Antonio or Austin Texas that wanted to meet up to go out and approach. I live in San Antonio, but I am happy to travel to Austin.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

Read more...

3AM

Don Juan
Joined
Oct 24, 2021
Messages
38
Reaction score
37
Age
42
I am down. I live in Austin, but know SA is a great place for women. Way better than Austin in my opinion. I need to work on my in person approach skills. DM me.
 

Pierce Manhammer

Moderator
Joined
Jun 2, 2021
Messages
4,894
Reaction score
5,867
Location
PRC
I certainly enjoyed Austin a few years back before HP and Rackspace really took off guess 2014 or around there.

Back then it was the Dirty 6th - I had great time UT made it a paradise on earth a guy in his 40’s dating coeds and 20-something’s. Back then HBs would open you down there, not sure if it’s stil like that. SBSW was literally insane. But it sure seemed everyone knew everyone and/or had slept with them…

good luck guys
 

3AM

Don Juan
Joined
Oct 24, 2021
Messages
38
Reaction score
37
Age
42
I certainly enjoyed Austin a few years back before HP and Rackspace really took off guess 2014 or around there.

Back then it was the Dirty 6th - I had great time UT made it a paradise on earth a guy in his 40’s dating coeds and 20-something’s. Back then HBs would open you down there, not sure if it’s stil like that. SBSW was literally insane. But it sure seemed everyone knew everyone and/or had slept with them…

good luck guys
Yeah, the Dirty 6th is still going strong haha Although it's evolved a bit. There is quite a few other districts to check out which is nice and there is still quite a bit of talent out here for sure. Haven't seen a lot of women hitting on guys though. There is still time to see it though haha
 

SW15

Master Don Juan
Joined
May 31, 2020
Messages
15,391
Reaction score
12,489
I am down. I live in Austin, but know SA is a great place for women. Way better than Austin in my opinion. I need to work on my in person approach skills. DM me.
I have repeatedly said that Austin and Dallas are the two worst mating markets in Texas for differing reasons. San Antonio has a better reputation.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

Read more...

BillyPilgrim

Master Don Juan
Joined
Apr 9, 2021
Messages
6,157
Reaction score
4,975
I have repeatedly said that Austin and Dallas are the two worst mating markets in Texas for differing reasons. San Antonio has a better reputation.
Lol and San Antonio is a military town with Big Ole Women


Houston actually seems fairly good. Whenever I test out new online openers, I use that market and get better responses than I do in my local market using the same openers once perfected (Phx/Scottsdale).
 

3AM

Don Juan
Joined
Oct 24, 2021
Messages
38
Reaction score
37
Age
42
Lol and San Antonio is a military town with Big Ole Women


Houston actually seems fairly good. Whenever I test out new online openers, I use that market and get better responses than I do in my local market using the same openers once perfected (Phx/Scottsdale).
LMFAO haha this has me rolling hahahaha
 

SW15

Master Don Juan
Joined
May 31, 2020
Messages
15,391
Reaction score
12,489
Lol and San Antonio is a military town with Big Ole Women

Houston actually seems fairly good. Whenever I test out new online openers, I use that market and get better responses than I do in my local market using the same openers once perfected (Phx/Scottsdale).
That's the trade off with San Antonio. The women are not as good looking as Dallas, but the attitudes are a little bit better.

Both Houston and San Antonio have reputations for obesity.

I like the Fort Worth scene.
 

aray808311

Don Juan
Joined
Jan 15, 2019
Messages
40
Reaction score
6
Age
33
I am down. I live in Austin, but know SA is a great place for women. Way better than Austin in my opinion. I need to work on my in person approach skills. DM me.
will do. my bad just saw your reply
 

aray808311

Don Juan
Joined
Jan 15, 2019
Messages
40
Reaction score
6
Age
33
Lol and San Antonio is a military town with Big Ole Women


Houston actually seems fairly good. Whenever I test out new online openers, I use that market and get better responses than I do in my local market using the same openers once perfected (Phx/Scottsdale).
lol i always think of this for san antonio
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

Read more...

Top