Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
King Turi said:She probably got molested when she was a child, or didn't have a father figure.
Both would explain the fetish for older men.
Either way who gives a crap, you got other ladies after you?
And the mark of the AFC comes out!DonGorgon said:... well men take what ever the hell they can get cause beggars cant be choosers
DonGorgon said:1. Met hot 18 year old chic at club on friday night.
2. Call her monday make plans to hang out tuesday
3. Pick her up she comes to my house we talk watch porn make out and F
4. Conversation is great real chemistry I think..
5. Drop her home she gives me tight hug and kiss on lips
6. She calls me before i make it home tells me to call her when im hom
7. I call her round 3am wen im goin to sleep she does not answer
8. Wednesday i dont hear from her so i call at 10 pm she says she is talking to her best friend and will call me back... She never called back.![]()
What should i do? Im assuming she decided shes not interested? Should i cut her off and assume she just wanted a one night stand.
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
nah im no afc but many men are...scrouds said:And the mark of the AFC comes out!
yeh i got 3 other plates spinning so its all good but you may be right. She is not giving me good enough feedback at all..Solomon said:Sorry to break it to you player, but it was a one night stand bro....
I use to have the same problem, I would try to add a chick to my "squad" or "wife" her on that type of tip. It rarely works, most chicks like that are just looking to "get in, get off, and get out" she ain't looking for love or good convo she just looking for one night of fun.
every friday and saturday i go to nightclubs and hunt.. for every 7 number i get i F one ho..Solomon said:Don how often do you go out?
sounds like you in the field heavy
1 out of 7?DonGorgon said:every friday and saturday i go to nightclubs and hunt.. for every 7 number i get i F one ho..
Im supposed to hang with this girl on wednesday but i think she will flake.. if she does im done with her..
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Yeh i got a new 19 year old Fbuddy on my team who is all business no BS.. so im good..Solomon said:1 out of 7?
that ain't bad at all bro, I think for me it's double that LOL,
a lotta people don't understand this **** is a numbers game
and yooo if you know a girl will flake make back up plans, I was suppose to hang with this chick yesterday but I hadn't heard from her at all, I got the hint and make back up plans with another one.
make sure you got options!!!
Most women at the bar are gonna F several dudes they met that night just make sure you are on of them.. They will choose different dudes for different reasons. I have concluded that for "regular men" its 50% luck and 50% skill with getting women..Solomon said:^^I'm trying to get on that level
I had 22 year old chick but she was flakey as hell, very cute though
But DG
you got me thinking though 1 out of 7 thats a 14% clip which is good, now I'm assuming thats girls you close right? or just approach overall? cause if it's overall that's a frigging good number (you must be a stud, no homo)
I thought about back in 2006 (simp/afc days) I was at a 6% clip so that's 1 out of 16. I don't know what my clip is now, I don't keep track of it
But damn you are right DG in what you use to say in Jayer's thread, it's not easy coming up at the bar if you a regular dude.
The problem with Mass approaching is that you can get more options but will get more flakes. Quality approaches are rare though just cause some of the club's move so fast that if you don't "strong arm" a broad you might lose her to someone else
what are your thoughts on this DG?
You know the deal.. 100% rightchangeherways said:i've found that if you wanna keep women in situations where they havent known you long and get the f - 2 things need to happen to combat her anti slut defense:
1. f them over and over like they will only be f'ed a few times in their lifetime. im talking that f them while holding them up in the middle of the room,. f them until you're both passed out. then...
2. sleep with them until they wake up. make sure you're holding them through the night (<< your biological chemicals and hers will mix - creating a primal connection words cannot create)
^ this is all assuming shes a freak in bed who's really into it... if she's not - #1 will never happen. cuz bore hors who just lay there like a board with a sqooshy hole will never get tired from fing. who wants worthless women like that anyway?
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.