She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
King Turi said:She probably got molested when she was a child, or didn't have a father figure.
Both would explain the fetish for older men.
Either way who gives a crap, you got other ladies after you?
And the mark of the AFC comes out!DonGorgon said:... well men take what ever the hell they can get cause beggars cant be choosers
DonGorgon said:1. Met hot 18 year old chic at club on friday night.
2. Call her monday make plans to hang out tuesday
3. Pick her up she comes to my house we talk watch porn make out and F
4. Conversation is great real chemistry I think..
5. Drop her home she gives me tight hug and kiss on lips
6. She calls me before i make it home tells me to call her when im hom
7. I call her round 3am wen im goin to sleep she does not answer
8. Wednesday i dont hear from her so i call at 10 pm she says she is talking to her best friend and will call me back... She never called back.![]()
What should i do? Im assuming she decided shes not interested? Should i cut her off and assume she just wanted a one night stand.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
nah im no afc but many men are...scrouds said:And the mark of the AFC comes out!
yeh i got 3 other plates spinning so its all good but you may be right. She is not giving me good enough feedback at all..Solomon said:Sorry to break it to you player, but it was a one night stand bro....
I use to have the same problem, I would try to add a chick to my "squad" or "wife" her on that type of tip. It rarely works, most chicks like that are just looking to "get in, get off, and get out" she ain't looking for love or good convo she just looking for one night of fun.
every friday and saturday i go to nightclubs and hunt.. for every 7 number i get i F one ho..Solomon said:Don how often do you go out?
sounds like you in the field heavy
1 out of 7?DonGorgon said:every friday and saturday i go to nightclubs and hunt.. for every 7 number i get i F one ho..
Im supposed to hang with this girl on wednesday but i think she will flake.. if she does im done with her..
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Yeh i got a new 19 year old Fbuddy on my team who is all business no BS.. so im good..Solomon said:1 out of 7?
that ain't bad at all bro, I think for me it's double that LOL,
a lotta people don't understand this **** is a numbers game
and yooo if you know a girl will flake make back up plans, I was suppose to hang with this chick yesterday but I hadn't heard from her at all, I got the hint and make back up plans with another one.
make sure you got options!!!
Most women at the bar are gonna F several dudes they met that night just make sure you are on of them.. They will choose different dudes for different reasons. I have concluded that for "regular men" its 50% luck and 50% skill with getting women..Solomon said:^^I'm trying to get on that level
I had 22 year old chick but she was flakey as hell, very cute though
But DG
you got me thinking though 1 out of 7 thats a 14% clip which is good, now I'm assuming thats girls you close right? or just approach overall? cause if it's overall that's a frigging good number (you must be a stud, no homo)
I thought about back in 2006 (simp/afc days) I was at a 6% clip so that's 1 out of 16. I don't know what my clip is now, I don't keep track of it
But damn you are right DG in what you use to say in Jayer's thread, it's not easy coming up at the bar if you a regular dude.
The problem with Mass approaching is that you can get more options but will get more flakes. Quality approaches are rare though just cause some of the club's move so fast that if you don't "strong arm" a broad you might lose her to someone else
what are your thoughts on this DG?
You know the deal.. 100% rightchangeherways said:i've found that if you wanna keep women in situations where they havent known you long and get the f - 2 things need to happen to combat her anti slut defense:
1. f them over and over like they will only be f'ed a few times in their lifetime. im talking that f them while holding them up in the middle of the room,. f them until you're both passed out. then...
2. sleep with them until they wake up. make sure you're holding them through the night (<< your biological chemicals and hers will mix - creating a primal connection words cannot create)
^ this is all assuming shes a freak in bed who's really into it... if she's not - #1 will never happen. cuz bore hors who just lay there like a board with a sqooshy hole will never get tired from fing. who wants worthless women like that anyway?
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.