"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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She probably got molested when she was a child, or didn't have a father figure.

Both would explain the fetish for older men.

Either way who gives a crap, you got other ladies after you?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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King Turi said:
She probably got molested when she was a child, or didn't have a father figure.

Both would explain the fetish for older men.

Either way who gives a crap, you got other ladies after you?

She said she just last her virginity and she was very very tight so i believe it....lol

young girls are usually attracted to older men its normal human instinct..lol and men .. well men take what ever the hell they can get cause beggars cant be choosers
 

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1. Met hot 18 year old chic at club on friday night.
2. Call her monday make plans to hang out tuesday
3. Pick her up she comes to my house we talk watch porn make out and F
4. Conversation is great real chemistry I think..
5. Drop her home she gives me tight hug and kiss on lips
6. She calls me before i make it home tells me to call her when im hom
7. I call her round 3am wen im goin to sleep she does not answer
8. Wednesday i dont hear from her so i call at 10 pm she says she is talking to her best friend and will call me back... She never called back.:confused:

What should i do? Im assuming she decided shes not interested? Should i cut her off and assume she just wanted a one night st
and.

Sorry to break it to you player, but it was a one night stand bro....

I use to have the same problem, I would try to add a chick to my "squad" or "wife" her on that type of tip. It rarely works, most chicks like that are just looking to "get in, get off, and get out" she ain't looking for love or good convo she just looking for one night of fun.

Peace

p.s. But then I could be mistaken cause you met her on a friday and smashed on a tuesday, I had a smiliar thing like this happen recencetly, cut the heffa go and get yourself a new one bruh
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Solomon said:
Sorry to break it to you player, but it was a one night stand bro....

I use to have the same problem, I would try to add a chick to my "squad" or "wife" her on that type of tip. It rarely works, most chicks like that are just looking to "get in, get off, and get out" she ain't looking for love or good convo she just looking for one night of fun.
yeh i got 3 other plates spinning so its all good but you may be right. She is not giving me good enough feedback at all..
 

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Solomon said:
Don how often do you go out?

sounds like you in the field heavy
every friday and saturday i go to nightclubs and hunt.. for every 7 number i get i F one ho..

Im supposed to hang with this girl on wednesday but i think she will flake.. if she does im done with her..
 

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every friday and saturday i go to nightclubs and hunt.. for every 7 number i get i F one ho..

Im supposed to hang with this girl on wednesday but i think she will flake.. if she does im done with her..
1 out of 7?

that ain't bad at all bro, I think for me it's double that LOL,

a lotta people don't understand this **** is a numbers game

and yooo if you know a girl will flake make back up plans, I was suppose to hang with this chick yesterday but I hadn't heard from her at all, I got the hint and make back up plans with another one.

make sure you got options!!!
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Solomon said:
1 out of 7?

that ain't bad at all bro, I think for me it's double that LOL,

a lotta people don't understand this **** is a numbers game

and yooo if you know a girl will flake make back up plans, I was suppose to hang with this chick yesterday but I hadn't heard from her at all, I got the hint and make back up plans with another one.

make sure you got options!!!
Yeh i got a new 19 year old Fbuddy on my team who is all business no BS.. so im good..
 

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^^I'm trying to get on that level

I had 22 year old chick but she was flakey as hell, very cute though

But DG

you got me thinking though 1 out of 7 thats a 14% clip which is good, now I'm assuming thats girls you close right? or just approach overall? cause if it's overall that's a frigging good number (you must be a stud, no homo)

I thought about back in 2006 (simp/afc days) I was at a 6% clip so that's 1 out of 16. I don't know what my clip is now, I don't keep track of it

But damn you are right DG in what you use to say in Jayer's thread, it's not easy coming up at the bar if you a regular dude.

The problem with Mass approaching is that you can get more options but will get more flakes. Quality approaches are rare though just cause some of the club's move so fast that if you don't "strong arm" a broad you might lose her to someone else

what are your thoughts on this DG?
 
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i've found that if you wanna keep women in situations where they havent known you long and get the f - 2 things need to happen to combat her anti slut defense:

1. f them over and over like they will only be f'ed a few times in their lifetime. im talking that f them while holding them up in the middle of the room,. f them until you're both passed out. then...
2. sleep with them until they wake up. make sure you're holding them through the night (<< your biological chemicals and hers will mix - creating a primal connection words cannot create)

^ this is all assuming shes a freak in bed who's really into it... if she's not - #1 will never happen. cuz bore hors who just lay there like a board with a sqooshy hole will never get tired from fing. who wants worthless women like that anyway?
 

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Solomon said:
^^I'm trying to get on that level

I had 22 year old chick but she was flakey as hell, very cute though

But DG

you got me thinking though 1 out of 7 thats a 14% clip which is good, now I'm assuming thats girls you close right? or just approach overall? cause if it's overall that's a frigging good number (you must be a stud, no homo)

I thought about back in 2006 (simp/afc days) I was at a 6% clip so that's 1 out of 16. I don't know what my clip is now, I don't keep track of it

But damn you are right DG in what you use to say in Jayer's thread, it's not easy coming up at the bar if you a regular dude.

The problem with Mass approaching is that you can get more options but will get more flakes. Quality approaches are rare though just cause some of the club's move so fast that if you don't "strong arm" a broad you might lose her to someone else

what are your thoughts on this DG?
Most women at the bar are gonna F several dudes they met that night just make sure you are on of them.. They will choose different dudes for different reasons. I have concluded that for "regular men" its 50% luck and 50% skill with getting women..

I dance with girls than ask for their number and say i will call them.. thats it.. no long talk .. these club ho know the deal and they know they can choose any man they want ..
 

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changeherways said:
i've found that if you wanna keep women in situations where they havent known you long and get the f - 2 things need to happen to combat her anti slut defense:

1. f them over and over like they will only be f'ed a few times in their lifetime. im talking that f them while holding them up in the middle of the room,. f them until you're both passed out. then...
2. sleep with them until they wake up. make sure you're holding them through the night (<< your biological chemicals and hers will mix - creating a primal connection words cannot create)

^ this is all assuming shes a freak in bed who's really into it... if she's not - #1 will never happen. cuz bore hors who just lay there like a board with a sqooshy hole will never get tired from fing. who wants worthless women like that anyway?
You know the deal.. 100% right
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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