Now because of the obvious numbers between the two - are most people on here from a city or live in one? well Im rural but in every time I pulled and dated in the past was from a city or large town or OLD. what are the pros and cons?? Im in the process of in next stage of my life - relocating longer term to Don Juan and make a living too and fun.
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Rural vs city - which is better?
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
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I would assume its easier to date people in the city but its also easier to get nexted due to numbers. In rural areas it will be harder to find dates due to low numbers but also likely will be harder to get nexted due to many people
Not sure where you live but you will find it will be harder find a woman in rural areas. I've been raised and still live in a rural area finding women isn't easy, you will find guys out number women in rural areas as the employment in rural areas is geared toward men.