Now because of the obvious numbers between the two - are most people on here from a city or live in one? well Im rural but in every time I pulled and dated in the past was from a city or large town or OLD. what are the pros and cons?? Im in the process of in next stage of my life - relocating longer term to Don Juan and make a living too and fun.
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Rural vs city - which is better?
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I would assume its easier to date people in the city but its also easier to get nexted due to numbers. In rural areas it will be harder to find dates due to low numbers but also likely will be harder to get nexted due to many people
Not sure where you live but you will find it will be harder find a woman in rural areas. I've been raised and still live in a rural area finding women isn't easy, you will find guys out number women in rural areas as the employment in rural areas is geared toward men.