Now because of the obvious numbers between the two - are most people on here from a city or live in one? well Im rural but in every time I pulled and dated in the past was from a city or large town or OLD. what are the pros and cons?? Im in the process of in next stage of my life - relocating longer term to Don Juan and make a living too and fun.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Rural vs city - which is better?
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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I would assume its easier to date people in the city but its also easier to get nexted due to numbers. In rural areas it will be harder to find dates due to low numbers but also likely will be harder to get nexted due to many people
Not sure where you live but you will find it will be harder find a woman in rural areas. I've been raised and still live in a rural area finding women isn't easy, you will find guys out number women in rural areas as the employment in rural areas is geared toward men.