“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Rollo Tomassi

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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duuuuude, hehe nice detective work
 

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tell me about it, here i was thinking all pimps were black.
 

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I can confirm affirmative.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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looks good for his age. very good actually. no homo
 

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Yeah, that's Rollo. Penkitten and I are both on his friends list. I thought str8up was in his friends, too, but don't see him.
 

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WhitePimp said:
I thought he was black for some reason
...says White pimp.

:crackup:

You guys should see the women he works with! Tssshhh hott!

Am I the only one who thinks Rollo looks like Brett Favre?
 

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I found that one a while ago, but I was nice enough to not post it for the whole forum to see.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Heh,..it's OK, I have a MySpace site for a variety of reasons.

The Bat said:
Am I the only one who thinks Rollo looks like Brett Favre?
Heheheh,..my wife calls this "getting Favred" and yes I get it a lot.
 

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Bible_Belt said:
Yeah, that's Rollo. Penkitten and I are both on his friends list. I thought str8up was in his friends, too, but don't see him.
Myspace is sooooo 2008
 

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Bible_Belt said:
Yeah, that's Rollo. Penkitten and I are both on his friends list. I thought str8up was in his friends, too, but don't see him.
So am I :D
 

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STR8UP said:
Myspace is sooooo 2008
I see your point, but I'd say being on just one of the two is so 2008.

Gotta get around to making a Facebook now. The rules have changed. In 07', you were REALLY creepy if you had a facebook and you were past 30.

I hear facebook has no blog; myspace's best feature if you ask me.
 

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azanon said:
I hear facebook has no blog; myspace's best feature if you ask me.
yes they do, but they don't call it a blog, they call it notes.:moon:
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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I'm just messin' around. I'm on both but I don't spend too much time on either one.

Like I said many times in the past......neither one is "bad" or "AFC" or creepy at ANY age. They are simply modern communication tools and are only as good as the way you use them.
 

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News Flash: Sosuave Forum issue #45 "Rollo Tomassi's identity is exposed" ,Lol. Now the Ladies whose guys left them might come looking for you to exact revenge.
It's just funny cos I was thinking the other day I wonder what Rollo looks like. Good job Eatgel, I'ill wire the money to your bank account later.
 

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Rollo, Your myspace is plain, besides the guitar solo. Apparently your forte is women, vodka, and sosuave + whatever else it is that you do. You should have someone redesign your myspace. Are you on facebook? I'd like to chat live with you one of these days. If I ever happen to be in your area of Florida I'd look you up.
To whoever said he looks like Brett Favre. You are right! So, Rollo do you consider yourself old school?
 

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jafyk said:
News Flash: Sosuave Forum issue #45 "Rollo Tomassi's identity is exposed" ,Lol. Now the Ladies whose guys left them might come looking for you to exact revenge.
It's just funny cos I was thinking the other day I wonder what Rollo looks like. Good job Eatgel, I'ill wire the money to your bank account later.
You guys are making this sound like someone did some major detective work.

I personally looked up Rollo over a year ago. It took me - ole - 30 seconds to type in "Rollo Tomassi" in the myspace search engine and, you guessed it, i got one hit.
 

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azanon said:
You guys are making this sound like someone did some major detective work.

I personally looked up Rollo over a year ago. It took me - ole - 30 seconds to type in "Rollo Tomassi" in the myspace search engine and, you guessed it, i got one hit.
Hey, man don't play this down for us ok? Lol. Do you know how long we've been trying to Unmask this Son of a... (Just kidding Rollo), lol.
By the way Rollo I'm not a big fan of metal but you're guitar solo skills are phenomenal and I see you do illustrations and Graphic Design (which is my major) Do you have a website where I can see some of your stuff. Otherwise you should put them up on my space. This might sound weird but I;m excited over this thread, lol.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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