Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Rollo Tomassi

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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duuuuude, hehe nice detective work
 

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tell me about it, here i was thinking all pimps were black.
 

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I can confirm affirmative.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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looks good for his age. very good actually. no homo
 

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Yeah, that's Rollo. Penkitten and I are both on his friends list. I thought str8up was in his friends, too, but don't see him.
 

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WhitePimp said:
I thought he was black for some reason
...says White pimp.

:crackup:

You guys should see the women he works with! Tssshhh hott!

Am I the only one who thinks Rollo looks like Brett Favre?
 

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I found that one a while ago, but I was nice enough to not post it for the whole forum to see.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Heh,..it's OK, I have a MySpace site for a variety of reasons.

The Bat said:
Am I the only one who thinks Rollo looks like Brett Favre?
Heheheh,..my wife calls this "getting Favred" and yes I get it a lot.
 

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Bible_Belt said:
Yeah, that's Rollo. Penkitten and I are both on his friends list. I thought str8up was in his friends, too, but don't see him.
Myspace is sooooo 2008
 

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Bible_Belt said:
Yeah, that's Rollo. Penkitten and I are both on his friends list. I thought str8up was in his friends, too, but don't see him.
So am I :D
 

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STR8UP said:
Myspace is sooooo 2008
I see your point, but I'd say being on just one of the two is so 2008.

Gotta get around to making a Facebook now. The rules have changed. In 07', you were REALLY creepy if you had a facebook and you were past 30.

I hear facebook has no blog; myspace's best feature if you ask me.
 

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azanon said:
I hear facebook has no blog; myspace's best feature if you ask me.
yes they do, but they don't call it a blog, they call it notes.:moon:
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I'm just messin' around. I'm on both but I don't spend too much time on either one.

Like I said many times in the past......neither one is "bad" or "AFC" or creepy at ANY age. They are simply modern communication tools and are only as good as the way you use them.
 

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News Flash: Sosuave Forum issue #45 "Rollo Tomassi's identity is exposed" ,Lol. Now the Ladies whose guys left them might come looking for you to exact revenge.
It's just funny cos I was thinking the other day I wonder what Rollo looks like. Good job Eatgel, I'ill wire the money to your bank account later.
 

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Rollo, Your myspace is plain, besides the guitar solo. Apparently your forte is women, vodka, and sosuave + whatever else it is that you do. You should have someone redesign your myspace. Are you on facebook? I'd like to chat live with you one of these days. If I ever happen to be in your area of Florida I'd look you up.
To whoever said he looks like Brett Favre. You are right! So, Rollo do you consider yourself old school?
 

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jafyk said:
News Flash: Sosuave Forum issue #45 "Rollo Tomassi's identity is exposed" ,Lol. Now the Ladies whose guys left them might come looking for you to exact revenge.
It's just funny cos I was thinking the other day I wonder what Rollo looks like. Good job Eatgel, I'ill wire the money to your bank account later.
You guys are making this sound like someone did some major detective work.

I personally looked up Rollo over a year ago. It took me - ole - 30 seconds to type in "Rollo Tomassi" in the myspace search engine and, you guessed it, i got one hit.
 

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azanon said:
You guys are making this sound like someone did some major detective work.

I personally looked up Rollo over a year ago. It took me - ole - 30 seconds to type in "Rollo Tomassi" in the myspace search engine and, you guessed it, i got one hit.
Hey, man don't play this down for us ok? Lol. Do you know how long we've been trying to Unmask this Son of a... (Just kidding Rollo), lol.
By the way Rollo I'm not a big fan of metal but you're guitar solo skills are phenomenal and I see you do illustrations and Graphic Design (which is my major) Do you have a website where I can see some of your stuff. Otherwise you should put them up on my space. This might sound weird but I;m excited over this thread, lol.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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