responding to hate mail from ex

[vachir]

Hi DJs,

Long story short-- i broke up with this girl, maybe she didnt take it too well, she deleted me on facebook. now: a year later, out of the blue sent me a message:

"You must be bored.
Empty maybe"

after clicking her profile apparently she got a new boyfriend. not sure what is the reaction she is looking for? i dont want to turn it into a pissing contest since i moved on long ago.

inputs/suggestions to replies or ignore appreciated.

 

[combustiont]

Hi DJs,

Long story short-- i broke up with this girl, maybe she didnt take it too well, she deleted me on facebook. now: a year later, out of the blue sent me a message:

"You must be bored.
Empty maybe"

after clicking her profile apparently she got a new boyfriend. not sure what is the reaction she is looking for? i dont want to turn it into a pissing contest since i moved on long ago.

inputs/suggestions to replies or ignore appreciated.

If you moved on long ago does this even warrant a response?

Remember, in the process of making a decision, inaction is a completely valid response and I believe applicable in this case. I'd ignore it. She hasn't moved on but you have.

Go have fun man.

 

[Dannyrt34]

Yep, ignore it man, nothing good can come from a conversation with a bitter ex. She'll either talk to you to make you feel like shlt or try to piss you off. So ignore it.

 

[penkitten]

dont respond, its a trick!

 

[Vlad the Impaler]

Hi DJs,

Long story short-- i broke up with this girl, maybe she didnt take it too well, she deleted me on facebook. now: a year later, out of the blue sent me a message:

"You must be bored.
Empty maybe"

after clicking her profile apparently she got a new boyfriend. not sure what is the reaction she is looking for? i dont want to turn it into a pissing contest since i moved on long ago.

inputs/suggestions to replies or ignore appreciated.

What the hell does that message even mean? It makes no sense. That isn't even hate mail. This thread is lame.

 

[Desert Fox]

I am diagnosing your GF as being a retard.

"You must be bored. Empty maybe."

Something clearly a retard would write. You know what you do to retards? You ignore them.

 

[KontrollerX]

Haha, you got her good bro.

She's all hung up on you and trying to get revenge.

Don't ever respond to her message or talk to her ever again.

Just getting you to talk to her would be validation for her that she is worth something.

Don't give her any validation at all not even the smallest crumb of it.

 

[slaog]

She obviously got very hurt after the break up and is now showing you that she's not single anymore. lol


She'd come running back to you if you called her.

 

[vachir]

thanks guys

appreciate all the input. im still learning to defuse girly mindtricks. always nice to learn here

 

[Aragon034]

thanks guys

appreciate all the input. im still learning to defuse girly mindtricks. always nice to learn here

just be glad they aren't jedi mindtricks otherwise you'd be screwed.

 

[Asteconn]

I'd not even humour that with a response