"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

Read more...

responding to hate mail from ex

V

vachir

Don Juan
Joined
Jan 29, 2008
Messages
38
Reaction score
1
Hi DJs,

Long story short-- i broke up with this girl, maybe she didnt take it too well, she deleted me on facebook. now: a year later, out of the blue sent me a message:

"You must be bored.
Empty maybe"

after clicking her profile apparently she got a new boyfriend. not sure what is the reaction she is looking for? i dont want to turn it into a pissing contest since i moved on long ago.

inputs/suggestions to replies or ignore appreciated.

:)
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

Read more...

C

combustiont

Don Juan
Joined
Nov 30, 2008
Messages
46
Reaction score
0
vachir said:
Hi DJs,

Long story short-- i broke up with this girl, maybe she didnt take it too well, she deleted me on facebook. now: a year later, out of the blue sent me a message:

"You must be bored.
Empty maybe"

after clicking her profile apparently she got a new boyfriend. not sure what is the reaction she is looking for? i dont want to turn it into a pissing contest since i moved on long ago.

inputs/suggestions to replies or ignore appreciated.

:)
Click to expand...
If you moved on long ago does this even warrant a response?

Remember, in the process of making a decision, inaction is a completely valid response and I believe applicable in this case. I'd ignore it. She hasn't moved on but you have.

Go have fun man.
 
D

Dannyrt34

Master Don Juan
Joined
May 26, 2006
Messages
684
Reaction score
20
Age
40
Location
Belle Vernon, PA
Yep, ignore it man, nothing good can come from a conversation with a bitter ex. She'll either talk to you to make you feel like shlt or try to piss you off. So ignore it.
 
V

Vlad the Impaler

Banned
Joined
Jun 14, 2008
Messages
594
Reaction score
8
vachir said:
Hi DJs,

Long story short-- i broke up with this girl, maybe she didnt take it too well, she deleted me on facebook. now: a year later, out of the blue sent me a message:

"You must be bored.
Empty maybe"

after clicking her profile apparently she got a new boyfriend. not sure what is the reaction she is looking for? i dont want to turn it into a pissing contest since i moved on long ago.

inputs/suggestions to replies or ignore appreciated.

:)
Click to expand...
What the hell does that message even mean? It makes no sense. That isn't even hate mail. This thread is lame.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

Read more...

D

Desert Fox

Master Don Juan
Joined
Feb 16, 2008
Messages
786
Reaction score
22
I am diagnosing your GF as being a retard.

"You must be bored. Empty maybe."

Something clearly a retard would write. You know what you do to retards? You ignore them.
 
K

KontrollerX

Master Don Juan
Joined
Oct 11, 2005
Messages
4,476
Reaction score
182
Haha, you got her good bro.

She's all hung up on you and trying to get revenge.

Don't ever respond to her message or talk to her ever again.

Just getting you to talk to her would be validation for her that she is worth something.

Don't give her any validation at all not even the smallest crumb of it. :up:
 
V

vachir

Don Juan
Joined
Jan 29, 2008
Messages
38
Reaction score
1
thanks guys

appreciate all the input. im still learning to defuse girly mindtricks. always nice to learn here :)
 
A

Aragon034

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jul 31, 2008
Messages
573
Reaction score
15
Location
T-dot
vachir said:
thanks guys

appreciate all the input. im still learning to defuse girly mindtricks. always nice to learn here :)
Click to expand...
just be glad they aren't jedi mindtricks otherwise you'd be screwed.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

Read more...

You must log in or register to reply here.
22 Rules for Massive Success With Women
Top