Respect?

[tryst type]

First time dealing with a girl who didn't take lightly to fun sexual regerences and told me to stop making them. After I picked on her about being uptight and asked if she usually talks to choir boys, she said no only guys with respect because sexual references make her uncomfortable.

Isn't she supposed to be into her innate desires even with verbal play subtley? I'm confused.

 

[3countriesPlan]

One of those girls...she's got her shield up.. use less sexual references...

She won't be so rigid after you hit it....for these types it is a race downhill.. as you get closer to the finish line it gets easier

 

[ChrizZ]

what exactly did you tell her?

 

[tryst type]

This is what happened.

Her - I suck I'm 22 and still workin here
Me - you better suck or there won't be a third date!

So with this girl do I respect her and not make sexual innuendos at all til we have sex? Seems like she won't see me sexually without it? Juist not used to this approach.

 

[weakepedea]

:crackup:

 

[ChrizZ]

This is what happened.

Her - I suck I'm 22 and still workin here
Me - you better suck or there won't be a third date!

So with this girl do I respect her and not make sexual innuendos at all til we have sex? Seems like she won't see me sexually without it? Juist not used to this approach.

Hahahaha

you did awesome. You are definately not in the friendzone. You have to keep pushing it even if she gives you bad reactions. Escalate, escalate, escalate.

 

[tryst type]

Whyd she say it makes her uncomfortable? Not understanding this type if girl. Insight?

 

[penkitten]

come on, this is the type of thing that people take as sexual harrassment

 

[weakepedea]

Don't try to decipher the meaning because it probably makes no sense. It was probably just a defense so she wouldn't come off as easy. If you don't get a third date, for the next girl who has a sucky job, instead of threatening a bj for a third date, maybe you should try something else.

 

[tryst type]

Should I stop all sexual innuendos with this one?

 

[weakepedea]

I'd say wait til she does then calibrate from there.

 

[iqqi]

Yes, some women would find your comment offensive. Not all women have a dirty sense of humour. Some would find that comment rude and distasteful.

Yes, it was funny. But you wouldn't say it to just anyone, right?

 

[ChrizZ]

Should I stop all sexual innuendos with this one?

NO.

The worst you could do is apologizing for being a man. Keep it up and make your intentions clear to her.