"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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First time dealing with a girl who didn't take lightly to fun sexual regerences and told me to stop making them. After I picked on her about being uptight and asked if she usually talks to choir boys, she said no only guys with respect because sexual references make her uncomfortable.

Isn't she supposed to be into her innate desires even with verbal play subtley? I'm confused.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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One of those girls...she's got her shield up.. use less sexual references...

She won't be so rigid after you hit it....for these types it is a race downhill.. as you get closer to the finish line it gets easier
 
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This is what happened.

Her - I suck I'm 22 and still workin here
Me - you better suck or there won't be a third date! ;)

So with this girl do I respect her and not make sexual innuendos at all til we have sex? Seems like she won't see me sexually without it? Juist not used to this approach.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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tryst type said:
This is what happened.

Her - I suck I'm 22 and still workin here
Me - you better suck or there won't be a third date! ;)

So with this girl do I respect her and not make sexual innuendos at all til we have sex? Seems like she won't see me sexually without it? Juist not used to this approach.
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Hahahaha

you did awesome. You are definately not in the friendzone. You have to keep pushing it even if she gives you bad reactions. Escalate, escalate, escalate.
 
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Whyd she say it makes her uncomfortable? Not understanding this type if girl. Insight?
 
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come on, this is the type of thing that people take as sexual harrassment
 
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Don't try to decipher the meaning because it probably makes no sense. It was probably just a defense so she wouldn't come off as easy. If you don't get a third date, for the next girl who has a sucky job, instead of threatening a bj for a third date, maybe you should try something else.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Yes, some women would find your comment offensive. Not all women have a dirty sense of humour. Some would find that comment rude and distasteful.

Yes, it was funny. But you wouldn't say it to just anyone, right?
 
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tryst type said:
Should I stop all sexual innuendos with this one?
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NO.

The worst you could do is apologizing for being a man. Keep it up and make your intentions clear to her.
 
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