"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Classic thread!

Her asking you is an indicator of interest or a gold digger that you can absolutely sniff out. Assume the former and have fun with it. Maybe something like

My EBT funds don’t kick in until tomorrow, but we might have some good conversation. A Pabst Blue Ribbon for you?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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hedge killa said:
Her: Will you buy me a drink?

Me: Will you blow me?

I wouldn't hesitate one second....hahaha
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Have to say as a submissive woman always fighting those tendencies this would be the one that cut through it. Have you ever tried it and what response did you get? Probably I would be flustered or a bit speechless but in my head I would be thinking "yes please". I've never asked anyone to buy me a drink though, not my way. But for those who would say no and negative stuff, probably word would get around via girl talk that you're a bit of a knob. Just from a female perspective, you might not care either way
 
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I have never once been asked this.
I have also never asked a girl this.
But. I have offered & girls have offered.
 
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I can't really say i've had this experience before with strangers. Maybe it just happens in the movies. The closest thing to this that ever happened was I was sitting at a bar watching a sports game with my friend when a couple of girls came in. They sat right next to us. The one that sat next to me went "oooooh what are we drinking here?" I told her what it was and she said it looks good and if I recommend it.

With girls that i've known it has happened a couple of times but was also one of those deals where they would give me stuff/would buy if I asked or had done so before. I knew them well so I don't think it really counts. I'd guess it could be a good thing if a stranger asks but seems sort of rude imo.
 
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Me; "Sure"

Her: "I'll have a cosmo"

Me: "I mean after you buy me a house"
 
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Always fun to read these classic threads. Another potential answer:

"Sure, if you'll pay off my gambling debts: The Serbian Mafia is threatening to chop off both my hands, if they don't get their 10 grand plus interest by tomorrow... That'll deprive me of ten ways to pleasure you, in ways you've never imagined"
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Im not a man for one drink, but i will buy the second and third round.
 
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hood magic:

Shawntay: u wanna buy me a drink?

Jamal: dayum gurl, u sho' u need a drink? u look like u already wet as fuuukkk
 
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"wanna buy me a drink?"

"sure, what do you drink?"

"i'll have a---"

then cut her off with the old bob kelly classic:
"NOT YOU"
 
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