"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Recommendations for condom type?
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
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he's not asking which ones YOU getjoe henny said:The very small ones. :crackup:....
OP, go with some basic Trojans with spermicide. It really doesn't matter as long as they're latex (if you're not allergic) and the spermicide is for any errant semen that might slip out, plus it helps as lube in case she's not as into it as you are.
The Mad Ghost
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are there any condoms that specifically fit around the ring and not elsewhere?
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
There was a guy at my work who used to boast that he could always pull out at the right time with his girlfriend.joe henny said:Okay so who actually just pulls out?? I have a friend who has been doing it for three years. I'm too scared to try thatsh1 though
Fast forward a bit, and he already has one kid and another on the way.
My personal rule - if she is not on the pill (and you know this for sure), use a condom. Of course, i have broken this a couple of times myself, so far with no consequences (that I know of).
Joey,joe henny said:Okay so who actually just pulls out?? I have a friend who has been doing it for three years. I'm too scared to try thatsh1 though
Some are born lucky, some are good. And some have no luck at all. Good luck bro.
oh SNAP! what? WHAT?2crudedudes said:he's not asking which ones YOU get
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I think we know the same guy, fvcking hilarious.runner83 said:There was a guy at my work who used to boast that he could always pull out at the right time with his girlfriend.
Fast forward a bit, and he already has one kid and another on the way.
My personal rule - if she is not on the pill (and you know this for sure), use a condom. Of course, i have broken this a couple of times myself, so far with no consequences (that I know of).
I do joke/boast about being able to pull out at the right time, but I know I am playing russian roulette.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
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I lasted longer my very first time (bareback btw) than I did the next 4-5.MyNameIs said:If it's you first time you are going to ejaculate really soon. And the first time nervousness/jitters won't help either. I remember a type which has a slight numbing agent on the tip which might help you last longer. I'm sure you're gonna have a great time anyway though. Have fun!
The nervousness might make him not able to ***.