"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Recommendations for condom type?
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
2crudedudes
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he's not asking which ones YOU getjoe henny said:The very small ones. :crackup:....
OP, go with some basic Trojans with spermicide. It really doesn't matter as long as they're latex (if you're not allergic) and the spermicide is for any errant semen that might slip out, plus it helps as lube in case she's not as into it as you are.
The Mad Ghost
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are there any condoms that specifically fit around the ring and not elsewhere?
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
There was a guy at my work who used to boast that he could always pull out at the right time with his girlfriend.joe henny said:Okay so who actually just pulls out?? I have a friend who has been doing it for three years. I'm too scared to try thatsh1 though
Fast forward a bit, and he already has one kid and another on the way.
My personal rule - if she is not on the pill (and you know this for sure), use a condom. Of course, i have broken this a couple of times myself, so far with no consequences (that I know of).
Joey,joe henny said:Okay so who actually just pulls out?? I have a friend who has been doing it for three years. I'm too scared to try thatsh1 though
Some are born lucky, some are good. And some have no luck at all. Good luck bro.
oh SNAP! what? WHAT?2crudedudes said:he's not asking which ones YOU get
CantTouchMyStyle
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I think we know the same guy, fvcking hilarious.runner83 said:There was a guy at my work who used to boast that he could always pull out at the right time with his girlfriend.
Fast forward a bit, and he already has one kid and another on the way.
My personal rule - if she is not on the pill (and you know this for sure), use a condom. Of course, i have broken this a couple of times myself, so far with no consequences (that I know of).
I do joke/boast about being able to pull out at the right time, but I know I am playing russian roulette.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
CantTouchMyStyle
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I lasted longer my very first time (bareback btw) than I did the next 4-5.MyNameIs said:If it's you first time you are going to ejaculate really soon. And the first time nervousness/jitters won't help either. I remember a type which has a slight numbing agent on the tip which might help you last longer. I'm sure you're gonna have a great time anyway though. Have fun!
The nervousness might make him not able to ***.