"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Recommendations for condom type?
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
2crudedudes
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he's not asking which ones YOU getjoe henny said:The very small ones. :crackup:....
OP, go with some basic Trojans with spermicide. It really doesn't matter as long as they're latex (if you're not allergic) and the spermicide is for any errant semen that might slip out, plus it helps as lube in case she's not as into it as you are.
The Mad Ghost
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are there any condoms that specifically fit around the ring and not elsewhere?
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
There was a guy at my work who used to boast that he could always pull out at the right time with his girlfriend.joe henny said:Okay so who actually just pulls out?? I have a friend who has been doing it for three years. I'm too scared to try thatsh1 though
Fast forward a bit, and he already has one kid and another on the way.
My personal rule - if she is not on the pill (and you know this for sure), use a condom. Of course, i have broken this a couple of times myself, so far with no consequences (that I know of).
Joey,joe henny said:Okay so who actually just pulls out?? I have a friend who has been doing it for three years. I'm too scared to try thatsh1 though
Some are born lucky, some are good. And some have no luck at all. Good luck bro.
oh SNAP! what? WHAT?2crudedudes said:he's not asking which ones YOU get
CantTouchMyStyle
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I think we know the same guy, fvcking hilarious.runner83 said:There was a guy at my work who used to boast that he could always pull out at the right time with his girlfriend.
Fast forward a bit, and he already has one kid and another on the way.
My personal rule - if she is not on the pill (and you know this for sure), use a condom. Of course, i have broken this a couple of times myself, so far with no consequences (that I know of).
I do joke/boast about being able to pull out at the right time, but I know I am playing russian roulette.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
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I lasted longer my very first time (bareback btw) than I did the next 4-5.MyNameIs said:If it's you first time you are going to ejaculate really soon. And the first time nervousness/jitters won't help either. I remember a type which has a slight numbing agent on the tip which might help you last longer. I'm sure you're gonna have a great time anyway though. Have fun!
The nervousness might make him not able to ***.