Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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really interesting idea

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ok well i was looking at the "worst come on, not noticed" or something like that thread in the dj bible

anyway so i relized back last year when i brought a book to skewl a girl in every other class of mine would be like "o whats that book about?" or something... i actually HAD NO IDEA they were just trying to talk to me and stuff, i figured they were just surprised i was reading (i dont look to much like a reader) and so i did the worst thing possible and said "here just read the back" thinking bak i feel bad for them.. they had to pretend to read the back of a book they so wouldnt be interested in

anyway so i got this interesting idea for the FIRST DAY OF SCHOOL
i might just bring a book and this time when a girl asks and if i dont no her (il prob not know alot of ppl in my classes this year) im going to just say "do u rele want to no about the book.. or do u just want to no my name " ;D

anyway do u guys think this is a good idea or not?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I'll probably give it a shot, totally great way of screaming"I'M CONFIDENT...NOT YOU'RE AVERAGE CLOWN!"
 
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schools in a week

il tell u guys how it works when school arrives
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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well il probably use this leadership book i got called "Real Leadership: The 101 Collection".. i actually already read it and i learned alot :D

i cud tell it was for about 25ish year olds and so i feel ahead of the game since im younger ;D im also glad i found this site at a relativly young age
 
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