"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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really interesting idea

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ok well i was looking at the "worst come on, not noticed" or something like that thread in the dj bible

anyway so i relized back last year when i brought a book to skewl a girl in every other class of mine would be like "o whats that book about?" or something... i actually HAD NO IDEA they were just trying to talk to me and stuff, i figured they were just surprised i was reading (i dont look to much like a reader) and so i did the worst thing possible and said "here just read the back" thinking bak i feel bad for them.. they had to pretend to read the back of a book they so wouldnt be interested in

anyway so i got this interesting idea for the FIRST DAY OF SCHOOL
i might just bring a book and this time when a girl asks and if i dont no her (il prob not know alot of ppl in my classes this year) im going to just say "do u rele want to no about the book.. or do u just want to no my name " ;D

anyway do u guys think this is a good idea or not?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I'll probably give it a shot, totally great way of screaming"I'M CONFIDENT...NOT YOU'RE AVERAGE CLOWN!"
 
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schools in a week

il tell u guys how it works when school arrives
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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well il probably use this leadership book i got called "Real Leadership: The 101 Collection".. i actually already read it and i learned alot :D

i cud tell it was for about 25ish year olds and so i feel ahead of the game since im younger ;D im also glad i found this site at a relativly young age
 
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