"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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really interesting idea

Junaid

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ok well i was looking at the "worst come on, not noticed" or something like that thread in the dj bible

anyway so i relized back last year when i brought a book to skewl a girl in every other class of mine would be like "o whats that book about?" or something... i actually HAD NO IDEA they were just trying to talk to me and stuff, i figured they were just surprised i was reading (i dont look to much like a reader) and so i did the worst thing possible and said "here just read the back" thinking bak i feel bad for them.. they had to pretend to read the back of a book they so wouldnt be interested in

anyway so i got this interesting idea for the FIRST DAY OF SCHOOL
i might just bring a book and this time when a girl asks and if i dont no her (il prob not know alot of ppl in my classes this year) im going to just say "do u rele want to no about the book.. or do u just want to no my name " ;D

anyway do u guys think this is a good idea or not?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I'll probably give it a shot, totally great way of screaming"I'M CONFIDENT...NOT YOU'RE AVERAGE CLOWN!"
 

Junaid

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schools in a week

il tell u guys how it works when school arrives
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

Read more...

Junaid

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well il probably use this leadership book i got called "Real Leadership: The 101 Collection".. i actually already read it and i learned alot :D

i cud tell it was for about 25ish year olds and so i feel ahead of the game since im younger ;D im also glad i found this site at a relativly young age
 
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