"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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really interesting idea

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ok well i was looking at the "worst come on, not noticed" or something like that thread in the dj bible

anyway so i relized back last year when i brought a book to skewl a girl in every other class of mine would be like "o whats that book about?" or something... i actually HAD NO IDEA they were just trying to talk to me and stuff, i figured they were just surprised i was reading (i dont look to much like a reader) and so i did the worst thing possible and said "here just read the back" thinking bak i feel bad for them.. they had to pretend to read the back of a book they so wouldnt be interested in

anyway so i got this interesting idea for the FIRST DAY OF SCHOOL
i might just bring a book and this time when a girl asks and if i dont no her (il prob not know alot of ppl in my classes this year) im going to just say "do u rele want to no about the book.. or do u just want to no my name " ;D

anyway do u guys think this is a good idea or not?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I'll probably give it a shot, totally great way of screaming"I'M CONFIDENT...NOT YOU'RE AVERAGE CLOWN!"
 
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schools in a week

il tell u guys how it works when school arrives
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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well il probably use this leadership book i got called "Real Leadership: The 101 Collection".. i actually already read it and i learned alot :D

i cud tell it was for about 25ish year olds and so i feel ahead of the game since im younger ;D im also glad i found this site at a relativly young age
 
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