"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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ilikecharlene

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well she maybe overweight, but only marginally so. she's certainly not obese.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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rhcp83 said:
what's your take on really cute chubby girls.
The real question here is: "What's your take on this chubby girl?"

Imagine her naked. Does she pass the Boner Test? If so, start Gaming her...

If she doesn't, why are we wasting time on this thread?
 

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Was just wondering what other people thought. She wasn't interested in me anyway (And I've been told I'm good looking by other guys on this site and certainly no worse looking than her.) Maybe she thinks she deserves a 10 because of "what she's been through."

But yeah I'd do her in a heartbeat. A 10 by my standards.
 

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I'm into chicks like that more than the skinny with big fake tits LA types. Would definitely give her a poke!
 

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"I'm into chicks like that more than the skinny with big fake tits LA types."

like most guys, especially on this site lol.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Aaron B said:
what your penis thinks is really all that matters bro
LOL this exactly. Only Penis can decide if a girl is attractive or not for you :woo:
 

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Looks like a pretty natural weight if you ask me, I think that chick is sexy. She does not have that ****in gobbleneck goin on. That rail thin **** is force fed to you by the media, she looks like a woman to me. To each his own I suppose.
 

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rhcp83 said:
"I'm into chicks like that more than the skinny with big fake tits LA types."

like most guys, especially on this site lol.
Haha, when it comes to PUA culture.. I just imagine dudes gaming chicks that look like this..

http://media1.break.com/dnet/media/2008/6/07jun27-hot-club-girl.jpg

When I usually go for girls like this..

(NSFW)http://28.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_kxoxovPmPI1qa8h5jo1_500.jpg

Idk if I'm just generalizing on the PUA culture assumption, but there's nothing wrong with going for either types of chick. It's just preference.
 

rhcp83

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I misred, I thought you were saying you did go for the LA types.

Btw, who is that second girl with the huge real t1ts holding them? You know her or just good porn? lol
 

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Nah I just googled "curvy chick" and that pic showed up haha.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I see nothing wrong with the pic op posted she looks pretty good to me HOWEVER you gotta remember that's POF so you have to automatically add 10 pounds to whatever picture you see on pof and that will give you what they probably look like in real life at the present moment.

Chics on pof never post their current pictures they always post their best shots so if a girl is chubby looking on pof you can just add 10 pounds to that. You never know if those pics were from 2 years ago or more as well.
 

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rhcp83 said:
Was just wondering what other people thought. She wasn't interested in me anyway (And I've been told I'm good looking by other guys on this site and certainly no worse looking than her.) Maybe she thinks she deserves a 10 because of "what she's been through."

But yeah I'd do her in a heartbeat. A 10 by my standards.
She may be packing a few extra pounds but she's still gorgeous. A 10 though? There's no such thing as a 10, she's more of a 7(?). I can never take Americans and their rating system seriously.
 
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I see nothing wrong with the pic op posted she looks pretty good to me HOWEVER you gotta remember that's POF so you have to automatically add 10 pounds to whatever picture you see on pof and that will give you what they probably look like in real life at the present moment
I was always under the impression that cameras, mirrors and video recorders all added around 10lbs to the average person?

Even if she was 10lbs heavier in appearance than on the internet, that wouldn't put me off.

I'd be straight onto her like a fly to sh*t.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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rhcp83 said:
male 10s (in women's eyes) are rare...guys with perfectly sculpted bodies/alpha face, firefighters, cowboys, tall pretty boys, pretty boys like tom brady/derek jeter. in other words guys that wouldn't be on an advice site on how to improve with women. i call bs.
Not everyone is here to seek advice, nor do they need it. But whatever... This isn't a contest to see who's the best looking forum poster. I'm sure some of the guys on here are attractive.

This girl isn't chubby, but she is thick. It's probably in her genes. I always went after the skinny pretty girls, personally. But, *****es be crazy.

I see nothing wrong with her in the looks department, but probably wouldn't date her. She's gotta be skinny, but doesn't have to be hot. Cute and attractive works fine. All the girls I dated in the past were short, hot, and skinny. Pretty much attracted what I was. Two of those qualities are still in the criteria. Can't do the tall/thick ordeal.
 

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She's a few pounds overweight, but she's still pretty in the face.
Looks like the fat hasn't reached her face yet, she still has a pretty defined jawline and all.
I'd be more concered about how she's going to look 10 years from now than how she looks there.
I don't care for the skeletal look generally. I like a girl to have some meat on her.
 

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I'd be more concerned about how she's going to look 10 years from now

I'd say there's a 96% chance that she will look like an NFL offensive lineman.
 

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also, if you go out for a bite to eat NO FRIED FOODS! it will not help your cause.
 

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She's a 6.5 on my scale. Call me fag or whatever but I have very high standards even tho I'm still a fvcking virgin.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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