ilikecharlene
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well she maybe overweight, but only marginally so. she's certainly not obese.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
The real question here is: "What's your take on this chubby girl?"rhcp83 said:what's your take on really cute chubby girls.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
LOL this exactly. Only Penis can decide if a girl is attractive or not for you :woo:Aaron B said:what your penis thinks is really all that matters bro
Haha, when it comes to PUA culture.. I just imagine dudes gaming chicks that look like this..rhcp83 said:"I'm into chicks like that more than the skinny with big fake tits LA types."
like most guys, especially on this site lol.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
More like pleasingly plump.HalfAddict said:You call that chubby?
She may be packing a few extra pounds but she's still gorgeous. A 10 though? There's no such thing as a 10, she's more of a 7(?). I can never take Americans and their rating system seriously.rhcp83 said:Was just wondering what other people thought. She wasn't interested in me anyway (And I've been told I'm good looking by other guys on this site and certainly no worse looking than her.) Maybe she thinks she deserves a 10 because of "what she's been through."
But yeah I'd do her in a heartbeat. A 10 by my standards.
I'd smash her backdoors in.rhcp83 said:what's your take on really cute chubby girls.
http://www.pof.com/viewprofile.aspx?profile_id=34719239
i would definitely date/do a girl like this (if she was older and not into the club scene.)
I was always under the impression that cameras, mirrors and video recorders all added around 10lbs to the average person?f283000 said:I see nothing wrong with the pic op posted she looks pretty good to me HOWEVER you gotta remember that's POF so you have to automatically add 10 pounds to whatever picture you see on pof and that will give you what they probably look like in real life at the present moment
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Not everyone is here to seek advice, nor do they need it. But whatever... This isn't a contest to see who's the best looking forum poster. I'm sure some of the guys on here are attractive.rhcp83 said:male 10s (in women's eyes) are rare...guys with perfectly sculpted bodies/alpha face, firefighters, cowboys, tall pretty boys, pretty boys like tom brady/derek jeter. in other words guys that wouldn't be on an advice site on how to improve with women. i call bs.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.