ilikecharlene
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well she maybe overweight, but only marginally so. she's certainly not obese.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
really cute chubby girls
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
The real question here is: "What's your take on this chubby girl?"rhcp83 said:
Imagine her naked. Does she pass the Boner Test? If so, start Gaming her...
If she doesn't, why are we wasting time on this thread?
Was just wondering what other people thought. She wasn't interested in me anyway (And I've been told I'm good looking by other guys on this site and certainly no worse looking than her.) Maybe she thinks she deserves a 10 because of "what she's been through."
But yeah I'd do her in a heartbeat. A 10 by my standards.
But yeah I'd do her in a heartbeat. A 10 by my standards.
Alex DeLarge
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I'm into chicks like that more than the skinny with big fake tits LA types. Would definitely give her a poke!
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
HalfAddict
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Looks like a pretty natural weight if you ask me, I think that chick is sexy. She does not have that ****in gobbleneck goin on. That rail thin **** is force fed to you by the media, she looks like a woman to me. To each his own I suppose.
Alex DeLarge
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Haha, when it comes to PUA culture.. I just imagine dudes gaming chicks that look like this..rhcp83 said:
http://media1.break.com/dnet/media/2008/6/07jun27-hot-club-girl.jpg
When I usually go for girls like this..
(NSFW)http://28.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_kxoxovPmPI1qa8h5jo1_500.jpg
Idk if I'm just generalizing on the PUA culture assumption, but there's nothing wrong with going for either types of chick. It's just preference.
Alex DeLarge
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Nah I just googled "curvy chick" and that pic showed up haha.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
I see nothing wrong with the pic op posted she looks pretty good to me HOWEVER you gotta remember that's POF so you have to automatically add 10 pounds to whatever picture you see on pof and that will give you what they probably look like in real life at the present moment.
Chics on pof never post their current pictures they always post their best shots so if a girl is chubby looking on pof you can just add 10 pounds to that. You never know if those pics were from 2 years ago or more as well.
Chics on pof never post their current pictures they always post their best shots so if a girl is chubby looking on pof you can just add 10 pounds to that. You never know if those pics were from 2 years ago or more as well.
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I'd smash her backdoors in.rhcp83 said:
Cute, chubby chicks, sure as hell float my boat.
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I was always under the impression that cameras, mirrors and video recorders all added around 10lbs to the average person?f283000 said:
Even if she was 10lbs heavier in appearance than on the internet, that wouldn't put me off.
I'd be straight onto her like a fly to sh*t.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Not everyone is here to seek advice, nor do they need it. But whatever... This isn't a contest to see who's the best looking forum poster. I'm sure some of the guys on here are attractive.rhcp83 said:
This girl isn't chubby, but she is thick. It's probably in her genes. I always went after the skinny pretty girls, personally. But, *****es be crazy.
I see nothing wrong with her in the looks department, but probably wouldn't date her. She's gotta be skinny, but doesn't have to be hot. Cute and attractive works fine. All the girls I dated in the past were short, hot, and skinny. Pretty much attracted what I was. Two of those qualities are still in the criteria. Can't do the tall/thick ordeal.
zekko
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She's a few pounds overweight, but she's still pretty in the face.
Looks like the fat hasn't reached her face yet, she still has a pretty defined jawline and all.
I'd be more concered about how she's going to look 10 years from now than how she looks there.
I don't care for the skeletal look generally. I like a girl to have some meat on her.
Looks like the fat hasn't reached her face yet, she still has a pretty defined jawline and all.
I'd be more concered about how she's going to look 10 years from now than how she looks there.
I don't care for the skeletal look generally. I like a girl to have some meat on her.
Bible_Belt
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I'd be more concerned about how she's going to look 10 years from now
I'd say there's a 96% chance that she will look like an NFL offensive lineman.
I'd say there's a 96% chance that she will look like an NFL offensive lineman.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.