ilikecharlene
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well she maybe overweight, but only marginally so. she's certainly not obese.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
The real question here is: "What's your take on this chubby girl?"rhcp83 said:what's your take on really cute chubby girls.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
LOL this exactly. Only Penis can decide if a girl is attractive or not for you :woo:Aaron B said:what your penis thinks is really all that matters bro
Haha, when it comes to PUA culture.. I just imagine dudes gaming chicks that look like this..rhcp83 said:"I'm into chicks like that more than the skinny with big fake tits LA types."
like most guys, especially on this site lol.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
More like pleasingly plump.HalfAddict said:You call that chubby?
She may be packing a few extra pounds but she's still gorgeous. A 10 though? There's no such thing as a 10, she's more of a 7(?). I can never take Americans and their rating system seriously.rhcp83 said:Was just wondering what other people thought. She wasn't interested in me anyway (And I've been told I'm good looking by other guys on this site and certainly no worse looking than her.) Maybe she thinks she deserves a 10 because of "what she's been through."
But yeah I'd do her in a heartbeat. A 10 by my standards.
I'd smash her backdoors in.rhcp83 said:what's your take on really cute chubby girls.
http://www.pof.com/viewprofile.aspx?profile_id=34719239
i would definitely date/do a girl like this (if she was older and not into the club scene.)
I was always under the impression that cameras, mirrors and video recorders all added around 10lbs to the average person?f283000 said:I see nothing wrong with the pic op posted she looks pretty good to me HOWEVER you gotta remember that's POF so you have to automatically add 10 pounds to whatever picture you see on pof and that will give you what they probably look like in real life at the present moment
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Not everyone is here to seek advice, nor do they need it. But whatever... This isn't a contest to see who's the best looking forum poster. I'm sure some of the guys on here are attractive.rhcp83 said:male 10s (in women's eyes) are rare...guys with perfectly sculpted bodies/alpha face, firefighters, cowboys, tall pretty boys, pretty boys like tom brady/derek jeter. in other words guys that wouldn't be on an advice site on how to improve with women. i call bs.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.