"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Rating yourself 1-10

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How do you actually figure out where you are from 1-10. It's not just the looks, I know that. So how do you find out what you are, and does it really matter?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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You shouldn't worry nor care about how you'd score on some weird 1-10 scale.

Btw, I've been to Sweden recently. The only expression I remember from my trip was "jävla pajas," which a girl called me when I tried to test my skills on her.
 

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Originally posted by electro shock
Btw, I've been to Sweden recently. The only expression I remember from my trip was "jävla pajas," which a girl called me when I tried to test my skills on her.
Hah! That pretty much sums up the swedish girl, that they can do what so ever they please. Lot's of them, not even hot (read: ugly), act like they've got it all. Just the other day a girl, like 16 yo, gave me the finger (from the platform) as I sat down in the subway. :D Strange but funny.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Originally posted by Badmannaz
hey i just thought about it?? that would be a great question to ask a girl..
"Hi! I wanna know where I rate from 1-10 so I'm gonna ask 100 random girls, please write your rating from 1-10 ín the left field and you phone# in the right" :D

Way cool pick up. Plus you have to ask 20 ppl minimum. And hopefully you end up with a couole of hot dates :;)
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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S-lemond

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13.......................................inches
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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oakraiderz2

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Originally posted by E_ze05
13.......................................inches
Youre such a prick. Go pee on yourself in a corner.
 

Rex Man

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im sorry are we really rating ourselves from 1-10?

flame me all you want but that's like asking some random guy 'you think im hot too?'... Kinda gay guys

I'm honestly not trying to start sh but i why are we rating ourselves?
 

S-lemond

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Originally posted by oakraiderz2
Youre such a prick. Go pee on yourself in a corner.
stfu mom....who asked you...im bout tired of u, i dont even have a prob with u, but now ur starting to get on my nerves.....go get a hobbie, no not **** sucking, ur good enough at that already...
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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