Dysfunctional
Don Juan
How do you actually figure out where you are from 1-10. It's not just the looks, I know that. So how do you find out what you are, and does it really matter?
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Rating yourself 1-10
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
electro shock
Don Juan
You shouldn't worry nor care about how you'd score on some weird 1-10 scale.
Btw, I've been to Sweden recently. The only expression I remember from my trip was "jävla pajas," which a girl called me when I tried to test my skills on her.
Btw, I've been to Sweden recently. The only expression I remember from my trip was "jävla pajas," which a girl called me when I tried to test my skills on her.
Dysfunctional
Don Juan
Hah! That pretty much sums up the swedish girl, that they can do what so ever they please. Lot's of them, not even hot (read: ugly), act like they've got it all. Just the other day a girl, like 16 yo, gave me the finger (from the platform) as I sat down in the subway.
Strange but funny.Badmannaz
Master Don Juan
hey i just thought about it?? that would be a great question to ask a girl..
qweretyuiopas
Master Don Juan
I'd give myself a 6, but when my body is right and my acne is gone I will give me a 10
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Dysfunctional
Don Juan
"Hi! I wanna know where I rate from 1-10 so I'm gonna ask 100 random girls, please write your rating from 1-10 ín the left field and you phone# in the right"
Way cool pick up. Plus you have to ask 20 ppl minimum. And hopefully you end up with a couole of hot dates :
B-Lemond
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Egoist
Master Don Juan
i always see myself as a 10, even though i know that my looks arent a 10, but as a complete person I am a 10.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
bbestar
Banned
according to hot or not ive been range between 8 and 7.3
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
qweretyuiopas
Master Don Juan
:crackup:
oakraiderz2
Master Don Juan
Youre such a prick. Go pee on yourself in a corner.
im sorry are we really rating ourselves from 1-10?
flame me all you want but that's like asking some random guy 'you think im hot too?'... Kinda gay guys
I'm honestly not trying to start sh but i why are we rating ourselves?
flame me all you want but that's like asking some random guy 'you think im hot too?'... Kinda gay guys
I'm honestly not trying to start sh but i why are we rating ourselves?
Badmannaz
Master Don Juan
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No seriously that's the funniest sh*t i've seen all day
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.