Dysfunctional
Don Juan
How do you actually figure out where you are from 1-10. It's not just the looks, I know that. So how do you find out what you are, and does it really matter?
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Rating yourself 1-10
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
electro shock
Don Juan
You shouldn't worry nor care about how you'd score on some weird 1-10 scale.
Btw, I've been to Sweden recently. The only expression I remember from my trip was "jävla pajas," which a girl called me when I tried to test my skills on her.
Btw, I've been to Sweden recently. The only expression I remember from my trip was "jävla pajas," which a girl called me when I tried to test my skills on her.
Dysfunctional
Don Juan
Hah! That pretty much sums up the swedish girl, that they can do what so ever they please. Lot's of them, not even hot (read: ugly), act like they've got it all. Just the other day a girl, like 16 yo, gave me the finger (from the platform) as I sat down in the subway.
Strange but funny.Badmannaz
Master Don Juan
hey i just thought about it?? that would be a great question to ask a girl..
qweretyuiopas
Master Don Juan
I'd give myself a 6, but when my body is right and my acne is gone I will give me a 10
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Dysfunctional
Don Juan
"Hi! I wanna know where I rate from 1-10 so I'm gonna ask 100 random girls, please write your rating from 1-10 ín the left field and you phone# in the right"
Way cool pick up. Plus you have to ask 20 ppl minimum. And hopefully you end up with a couole of hot dates :
B-Lemond
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Egoist
Master Don Juan
i always see myself as a 10, even though i know that my looks arent a 10, but as a complete person I am a 10.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
bbestar
Banned
according to hot or not ive been range between 8 and 7.3
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
qweretyuiopas
Master Don Juan
:crackup:
oakraiderz2
Master Don Juan
Youre such a prick. Go pee on yourself in a corner.
im sorry are we really rating ourselves from 1-10?
flame me all you want but that's like asking some random guy 'you think im hot too?'... Kinda gay guys
I'm honestly not trying to start sh but i why are we rating ourselves?
flame me all you want but that's like asking some random guy 'you think im hot too?'... Kinda gay guys
I'm honestly not trying to start sh but i why are we rating ourselves?
Badmannaz
Master Don Juan
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No seriously that's the funniest sh*t i've seen all day
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.