Dysfunctional
Don Juan
How do you actually figure out where you are from 1-10. It's not just the looks, I know that. So how do you find out what you are, and does it really matter?
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Hah! That pretty much sums up the swedish girl, that they can do what so ever they please. Lot's of them, not even hot (read: ugly), act like they've got it all. Just the other day a girl, like 16 yo, gave me the finger (from the platform) as I sat down in the subway.Originally posted by electro shock
Btw, I've been to Sweden recently. The only expression I remember from my trip was "jävla pajas," which a girl called me when I tried to test my skills on her.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
"Hi! I wanna know where I rate from 1-10 so I'm gonna ask 100 random girls, please write your rating from 1-10 ín the left field and you phone# in the right"Originally posted by Badmannaz
hey i just thought about it?? that would be a great question to ask a girl..
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
haha then wat am i 20?Originally posted by bluelemond
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You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
:crackup:Originally posted by AmIAFC
I look like a 1 when I'm busting a nut.
Youre such a prick. Go pee on yourself in a corner.Originally posted by E_ze05
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stfu mom....who asked you...im bout tired of u, i dont even have a prob with u, but now ur starting to get on my nerves.....go get a hobbie, no not **** sucking, ur good enough at that already...Originally posted by oakraiderz2
Youre such a prick. Go pee on yourself in a corner.
Originally posted by AmIAFC
I look like a 1 when I'm busting a nut.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.