Dysfunctional
Don Juan
How do you actually figure out where you are from 1-10. It's not just the looks, I know that. So how do you find out what you are, and does it really matter?
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Hah! That pretty much sums up the swedish girl, that they can do what so ever they please. Lot's of them, not even hot (read: ugly), act like they've got it all. Just the other day a girl, like 16 yo, gave me the finger (from the platform) as I sat down in the subway.Originally posted by electro shock
Btw, I've been to Sweden recently. The only expression I remember from my trip was "jävla pajas," which a girl called me when I tried to test my skills on her.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
"Hi! I wanna know where I rate from 1-10 so I'm gonna ask 100 random girls, please write your rating from 1-10 ín the left field and you phone# in the right"Originally posted by Badmannaz
hey i just thought about it?? that would be a great question to ask a girl..
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
haha then wat am i 20?Originally posted by bluelemond
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Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
:crackup:Originally posted by AmIAFC
I look like a 1 when I'm busting a nut.
Youre such a prick. Go pee on yourself in a corner.Originally posted by E_ze05
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stfu mom....who asked you...im bout tired of u, i dont even have a prob with u, but now ur starting to get on my nerves.....go get a hobbie, no not **** sucking, ur good enough at that already...Originally posted by oakraiderz2
Youre such a prick. Go pee on yourself in a corner.
Originally posted by AmIAFC
I look like a 1 when I'm busting a nut.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.