AFC_Schism
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Rate this girl that I'm considering dating
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
uh, if you're talking about a LTR here what kind of question is this? If she does it for you, then go for it. There's something dysfunctional about posting your LTR on a forum to people you don't know before you start dating her.
"she's really good at sex, loves giving head"
is NOT a conducive to:
"I do like her and I think she likes me"
I'm going to say that you're fronting on your situation with this girl. Check yourself. It's not good for you
Kind of looks like my best friends girl in the first one though
"she's really good at sex, loves giving head"
is NOT a conducive to:
"I do like her and I think she likes me"
I'm going to say that you're fronting on your situation with this girl. Check yourself. It's not good for you
Kind of looks like my best friends girl in the first one though
Mistic
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Oh dj's what should i eat for breakfast
Dude, ur an idiot. Who cares what a bunch of clowns on a forum think about you dating some skank. she's a 5 tops by the way.
Dude, ur an idiot. Who cares what a bunch of clowns on a forum think about you dating some skank. she's a 5 tops by the way.
Love the replies so far, like someone who's banged over 600 women told me once "who cares, if you like her then what else matters?"
have fun with it if sex is good, seems you are young get all you can. I would choose a better looking girl myself but in the meantime nothing wrong with having her around.
have fun with it if sex is good, seems you are young get all you can. I would choose a better looking girl myself but in the meantime nothing wrong with having her around.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
MikeBrown30
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If she loses 10lbs she could possibly be a 5. Until then, she's a 3.
Yes, sarcasm is hard to detect on the internet in text form, but learn to think for yourself. Are you one of those guys who will only date/fvck a girl if she gets your friends or other peoples approval? Like I said, learn to think for yourself.
Yes, sarcasm is hard to detect on the internet in text form, but learn to think for yourself. Are you one of those guys who will only date/fvck a girl if she gets your friends or other peoples approval? Like I said, learn to think for yourself.
I cannot judge her for her worth as a LTR. No one other than you can do that. You are the one who will live with the consequence of spending time with her.
However, if you want me to judge her worthiness as a short term relation pump and dump, then yes she is worthy.
However, if you want me to judge her worthiness as a short term relation pump and dump, then yes she is worthy.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
morepoonplease
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i would not hit it. maybe if i was drunk and in a blackout.
zekko
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I agree with this. Sounds like you don't like her that much if you have to ask total strangers what they think of her. Think for yourself. If you like her, who cares what someone else thinks? If you don't like her, why are you considering getting with her?
I think she looks cute in the second picture. The first picture, not so much.
hahaha exactly!Mistic said:
dude there's a lot more important things to screen a girl for when considering an LTR than how good the sex is or how much she likes to give head to other guys on the side while you're busy posting about her on sosuave
cordoncordon
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Honestly? Because she is still young, she is maybe a 5.5. Give her a few years and she will be a 3-4 at best. But again, NONE of that matters. If you like her, if YOU think she is hot, then go for it.AFC_Schism said:
Why would you post this chick's pic up on a public forum and say, "she's really good at sex, loves giving head..."? It's a little sleazy, man.
Anyhow, do whatever you please. As someone above me said, you don't need approval from a bunch of clowns on a message board.
Anyhow, do whatever you please. As someone above me said, you don't need approval from a bunch of clowns on a message board.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
dj0014
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Hey, I think the girl is pretty cute. She also looks intelligent.
AFC_Schism, you don't need the opinion of some random people.
It is your personal life. Just check your gut.
Has anybody seen She's out of my league ?
AFC_Schism, you don't need the opinion of some random people.
It is your personal life. Just check your gut.
Has anybody seen She's out of my league ?
dj0014
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AFC_Schism, I'd ask the admins to edit the other posts and remove the links to the pics of your girl.
tony-montana
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yeah pretty dumb asking someone if you should pursue a relationship with her. no one knows her but you... ask yourself the question 
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.