AFC_Schism
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Rate this girl that I'm considering dating
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
uh, if you're talking about a LTR here what kind of question is this? If she does it for you, then go for it. There's something dysfunctional about posting your LTR on a forum to people you don't know before you start dating her.
"she's really good at sex, loves giving head"
is NOT a conducive to:
"I do like her and I think she likes me"
I'm going to say that you're fronting on your situation with this girl. Check yourself. It's not good for you
Kind of looks like my best friends girl in the first one though
"she's really good at sex, loves giving head"
is NOT a conducive to:
"I do like her and I think she likes me"
I'm going to say that you're fronting on your situation with this girl. Check yourself. It's not good for you
Kind of looks like my best friends girl in the first one though
Mistic
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Oh dj's what should i eat for breakfast
Dude, ur an idiot. Who cares what a bunch of clowns on a forum think about you dating some skank. she's a 5 tops by the way.
Dude, ur an idiot. Who cares what a bunch of clowns on a forum think about you dating some skank. she's a 5 tops by the way.
Love the replies so far, like someone who's banged over 600 women told me once "who cares, if you like her then what else matters?"
have fun with it if sex is good, seems you are young get all you can. I would choose a better looking girl myself but in the meantime nothing wrong with having her around.
have fun with it if sex is good, seems you are young get all you can. I would choose a better looking girl myself but in the meantime nothing wrong with having her around.
“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
MikeBrown30
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If she loses 10lbs she could possibly be a 5. Until then, she's a 3.
Yes, sarcasm is hard to detect on the internet in text form, but learn to think for yourself. Are you one of those guys who will only date/fvck a girl if she gets your friends or other peoples approval? Like I said, learn to think for yourself.
Yes, sarcasm is hard to detect on the internet in text form, but learn to think for yourself. Are you one of those guys who will only date/fvck a girl if she gets your friends or other peoples approval? Like I said, learn to think for yourself.
I cannot judge her for her worth as a LTR. No one other than you can do that. You are the one who will live with the consequence of spending time with her.
However, if you want me to judge her worthiness as a short term relation pump and dump, then yes she is worthy.
However, if you want me to judge her worthiness as a short term relation pump and dump, then yes she is worthy.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
morepoonplease
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i would not hit it. maybe if i was drunk and in a blackout.
zekko
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I agree with this. Sounds like you don't like her that much if you have to ask total strangers what they think of her. Think for yourself. If you like her, who cares what someone else thinks? If you don't like her, why are you considering getting with her?
I think she looks cute in the second picture. The first picture, not so much.
hahaha exactly!Mistic said:
dude there's a lot more important things to screen a girl for when considering an LTR than how good the sex is or how much she likes to give head to other guys on the side while you're busy posting about her on sosuave
cordoncordon
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Honestly? Because she is still young, she is maybe a 5.5. Give her a few years and she will be a 3-4 at best. But again, NONE of that matters. If you like her, if YOU think she is hot, then go for it.AFC_Schism said:
Why would you post this chick's pic up on a public forum and say, "she's really good at sex, loves giving head..."? It's a little sleazy, man.
Anyhow, do whatever you please. As someone above me said, you don't need approval from a bunch of clowns on a message board.
Anyhow, do whatever you please. As someone above me said, you don't need approval from a bunch of clowns on a message board.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
dj0014
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Hey, I think the girl is pretty cute. She also looks intelligent.
AFC_Schism, you don't need the opinion of some random people.
It is your personal life. Just check your gut.
Has anybody seen She's out of my league ?
AFC_Schism, you don't need the opinion of some random people.
It is your personal life. Just check your gut.
Has anybody seen She's out of my league ?
dj0014
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AFC_Schism, I'd ask the admins to edit the other posts and remove the links to the pics of your girl.
tony-montana
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yeah pretty dumb asking someone if you should pursue a relationship with her. no one knows her but you... ask yourself the question 
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.