AFC_Schism
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Rate this girl that I'm considering dating
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
uh, if you're talking about a LTR here what kind of question is this? If she does it for you, then go for it. There's something dysfunctional about posting your LTR on a forum to people you don't know before you start dating her.
"she's really good at sex, loves giving head"
is NOT a conducive to:
"I do like her and I think she likes me"
I'm going to say that you're fronting on your situation with this girl. Check yourself. It's not good for you
Kind of looks like my best friends girl in the first one though
"she's really good at sex, loves giving head"
is NOT a conducive to:
"I do like her and I think she likes me"
I'm going to say that you're fronting on your situation with this girl. Check yourself. It's not good for you
Kind of looks like my best friends girl in the first one though
Mistic
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Oh dj's what should i eat for breakfast
Dude, ur an idiot. Who cares what a bunch of clowns on a forum think about you dating some skank. she's a 5 tops by the way.
Dude, ur an idiot. Who cares what a bunch of clowns on a forum think about you dating some skank. she's a 5 tops by the way.
Love the replies so far, like someone who's banged over 600 women told me once "who cares, if you like her then what else matters?"
have fun with it if sex is good, seems you are young get all you can. I would choose a better looking girl myself but in the meantime nothing wrong with having her around.
have fun with it if sex is good, seems you are young get all you can. I would choose a better looking girl myself but in the meantime nothing wrong with having her around.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
MikeBrown30
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If she loses 10lbs she could possibly be a 5. Until then, she's a 3.
Yes, sarcasm is hard to detect on the internet in text form, but learn to think for yourself. Are you one of those guys who will only date/fvck a girl if she gets your friends or other peoples approval? Like I said, learn to think for yourself.
Yes, sarcasm is hard to detect on the internet in text form, but learn to think for yourself. Are you one of those guys who will only date/fvck a girl if she gets your friends or other peoples approval? Like I said, learn to think for yourself.
I cannot judge her for her worth as a LTR. No one other than you can do that. You are the one who will live with the consequence of spending time with her.
However, if you want me to judge her worthiness as a short term relation pump and dump, then yes she is worthy.
However, if you want me to judge her worthiness as a short term relation pump and dump, then yes she is worthy.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
morepoonplease
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i would not hit it. maybe if i was drunk and in a blackout.
zekko
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I agree with this. Sounds like you don't like her that much if you have to ask total strangers what they think of her. Think for yourself. If you like her, who cares what someone else thinks? If you don't like her, why are you considering getting with her?
I think she looks cute in the second picture. The first picture, not so much.
hahaha exactly!Mistic said:
dude there's a lot more important things to screen a girl for when considering an LTR than how good the sex is or how much she likes to give head to other guys on the side while you're busy posting about her on sosuave
cordoncordon
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Honestly? Because she is still young, she is maybe a 5.5. Give her a few years and she will be a 3-4 at best. But again, NONE of that matters. If you like her, if YOU think she is hot, then go for it.AFC_Schism said:
Why would you post this chick's pic up on a public forum and say, "she's really good at sex, loves giving head..."? It's a little sleazy, man.
Anyhow, do whatever you please. As someone above me said, you don't need approval from a bunch of clowns on a message board.
Anyhow, do whatever you please. As someone above me said, you don't need approval from a bunch of clowns on a message board.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
dj0014
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Hey, I think the girl is pretty cute. She also looks intelligent.
AFC_Schism, you don't need the opinion of some random people.
It is your personal life. Just check your gut.
Has anybody seen She's out of my league ?
AFC_Schism, you don't need the opinion of some random people.
It is your personal life. Just check your gut.
Has anybody seen She's out of my league ?
dj0014
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AFC_Schism, I'd ask the admins to edit the other posts and remove the links to the pics of your girl.
tony-montana
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yeah pretty dumb asking someone if you should pursue a relationship with her. no one knows her but you... ask yourself the question 
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.