I just did. Try to pay attention to the thread.omega05 said:how are you gonna tell someone else what they should rate a girl as?
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
I just did. Try to pay attention to the thread.omega05 said:how are you gonna tell someone else what they should rate a girl as?
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
loveshogun said:This is a picture of one of my best wing women, who sadly has skipped town.
I rate her at a solid 8. Her personality is stellar, though, so overall, she's gonna make some dude really happy.
http://a1.sphotos.ak.fbcdn.net/hphotos-ak-snc6/189524_1766814007947_670691_n.jpg
I don't mean to insult your friend, but I get a strong slvt vibe from this one, for some reason. 7.5.loveshogun said:This is a picture of one of my best wing women, who sadly has skipped town.
I rate her at a solid 8. Her personality is stellar, though, so overall, she's gonna make some dude really happy.
http://a1.sphotos.ak.fbcdn.net/hphotos-ak-snc6/189524_1766814007947_670691_n.jpg
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Hahaha, I'm pretty sure she wouldn't care what a bunch of guys on the internet think. She's a stand-up gal either way, I don't ask for many details about her personal life.zekko said:I don't mean to insult your friend, but I get a strong slvt vibe from this one, for some reason. 7.5.
lolzekko said:I don't mean to insult your friend, but I get a strong slvt vibe from this one, for some reason. 7.5.
I don't think so. 7.5 is actually pretty good from me.loveshogun said:Anyway, is the score you gave affected by that preconception?
I actually agree with you here.zekko said:I don't think so. 7.5 is actually pretty good from me.
I'm pretty forgiving with women when rating them. As long as she's not a fatty, old looking, or her face isn't busted, I'm probably not going to give her a 4 or less. Most girls will likely get a 6 or 7 if they're decent.
But to get an 8 or more, the girl has to really be exceptional. I don't give 8s or 9s out lightly. And I don't believe in 10s at all. The highest rating I've ever given a girl is 9.2.
True. You don't have to look very hard to find women who are physically attractive. Because they are fairly common, and I've been with enough to know what it's like to be with a secksy lady, other traits get more importance. A really good looking woman to me is a 7. If she is smart, funny, can hold a conversation, and is a naughty girl in the bed she can get boosted up to an 8 or 9. If she is dull or boring and just has a sh!tty I expect the world attitude, she goes down to a 6.loveshogun said:I can't think of a single 9 that I know, actually, because looking good by itself doesn't impress me anymore. A girl would have to look literally like something I'm imagining in my head.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.