I just did. Try to pay attention to the thread.omega05 said:how are you gonna tell someone else what they should rate a girl as?
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
I just did. Try to pay attention to the thread.omega05 said:how are you gonna tell someone else what they should rate a girl as?
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
loveshogun said:This is a picture of one of my best wing women, who sadly has skipped town.
I rate her at a solid 8. Her personality is stellar, though, so overall, she's gonna make some dude really happy.
http://a1.sphotos.ak.fbcdn.net/hphotos-ak-snc6/189524_1766814007947_670691_n.jpg
I don't mean to insult your friend, but I get a strong slvt vibe from this one, for some reason. 7.5.loveshogun said:This is a picture of one of my best wing women, who sadly has skipped town.
I rate her at a solid 8. Her personality is stellar, though, so overall, she's gonna make some dude really happy.
http://a1.sphotos.ak.fbcdn.net/hphotos-ak-snc6/189524_1766814007947_670691_n.jpg
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Hahaha, I'm pretty sure she wouldn't care what a bunch of guys on the internet think. She's a stand-up gal either way, I don't ask for many details about her personal life.zekko said:I don't mean to insult your friend, but I get a strong slvt vibe from this one, for some reason. 7.5.
lolzekko said:I don't mean to insult your friend, but I get a strong slvt vibe from this one, for some reason. 7.5.
I don't think so. 7.5 is actually pretty good from me.loveshogun said:Anyway, is the score you gave affected by that preconception?
I actually agree with you here.zekko said:I don't think so. 7.5 is actually pretty good from me.
I'm pretty forgiving with women when rating them. As long as she's not a fatty, old looking, or her face isn't busted, I'm probably not going to give her a 4 or less. Most girls will likely get a 6 or 7 if they're decent.
But to get an 8 or more, the girl has to really be exceptional. I don't give 8s or 9s out lightly. And I don't believe in 10s at all. The highest rating I've ever given a girl is 9.2.
True. You don't have to look very hard to find women who are physically attractive. Because they are fairly common, and I've been with enough to know what it's like to be with a secksy lady, other traits get more importance. A really good looking woman to me is a 7. If she is smart, funny, can hold a conversation, and is a naughty girl in the bed she can get boosted up to an 8 or 9. If she is dull or boring and just has a sh!tty I expect the world attitude, she goes down to a 6.loveshogun said:I can't think of a single 9 that I know, actually, because looking good by itself doesn't impress me anymore. A girl would have to look literally like something I'm imagining in my head.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.