"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Rate this chick out of ten
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
loveshogun
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I rate her at a solid 8. Her personality is stellar, though, so overall, she's gonna make some dude really happy.
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
loveshogun
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Hahaha, I'm pretty sure she wouldn't care what a bunch of guys on the internet think. She's a stand-up gal either way, I don't ask for many details about her personal life.zekko said:
Anyway, is the score you gave affected by that preconception?
In2theGame
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zekko
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I don't think so. 7.5 is actually pretty good from me.loveshogun said:
I'm pretty forgiving with women when rating them. As long as she's not a fatty, old looking, or her face isn't busted, I'm probably not going to give her a 4 or less. Most girls will likely get a 6 or 7 if they're decent.
But to get an 8 or more, the girl has to really be exceptional. I don't give 8s or 9s out lightly. And I don't believe in 10s at all. The highest rating I've ever given a girl is 9.2.
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I actually agree with you here.zekko said:
However, I do believe in 10s - a girl is never a 10 for more than a few hours, under the right light, doing the right thing, wearing the right thing.
Sometimes, when a girl who is a 9 is in the right circumstances, she puts you in that mode where you're literally ready to pounce.
That's the only time a girl is a 10, to me.
I can't think of a single 9 that I know, actually, because looking good by itself doesn't impress me anymore. A girl would have to look literally like something I'm imagining in my head.
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True. You don't have to look very hard to find women who are physically attractive. Because they are fairly common, and I've been with enough to know what it's like to be with a secksy lady, other traits get more importance. A really good looking woman to me is a 7. If she is smart, funny, can hold a conversation, and is a naughty girl in the bed she can get boosted up to an 8 or 9. If she is dull or boring and just has a sh!tty I expect the world attitude, she goes down to a 6.loveshogun said:
My rating scale takes too many things into factor to just say "oh yea, she's definitely an 8." I know many attractive women that I consider a 6.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.