I just did. Try to pay attention to the thread.omega05 said:how are you gonna tell someone else what they should rate a girl as?
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
I just did. Try to pay attention to the thread.omega05 said:how are you gonna tell someone else what they should rate a girl as?
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
loveshogun said:This is a picture of one of my best wing women, who sadly has skipped town.
I rate her at a solid 8. Her personality is stellar, though, so overall, she's gonna make some dude really happy.
http://a1.sphotos.ak.fbcdn.net/hphotos-ak-snc6/189524_1766814007947_670691_n.jpg
I don't mean to insult your friend, but I get a strong slvt vibe from this one, for some reason. 7.5.loveshogun said:This is a picture of one of my best wing women, who sadly has skipped town.
I rate her at a solid 8. Her personality is stellar, though, so overall, she's gonna make some dude really happy.
http://a1.sphotos.ak.fbcdn.net/hphotos-ak-snc6/189524_1766814007947_670691_n.jpg
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Hahaha, I'm pretty sure she wouldn't care what a bunch of guys on the internet think. She's a stand-up gal either way, I don't ask for many details about her personal life.zekko said:I don't mean to insult your friend, but I get a strong slvt vibe from this one, for some reason. 7.5.
lolzekko said:I don't mean to insult your friend, but I get a strong slvt vibe from this one, for some reason. 7.5.
I don't think so. 7.5 is actually pretty good from me.loveshogun said:Anyway, is the score you gave affected by that preconception?
I actually agree with you here.zekko said:I don't think so. 7.5 is actually pretty good from me.
I'm pretty forgiving with women when rating them. As long as she's not a fatty, old looking, or her face isn't busted, I'm probably not going to give her a 4 or less. Most girls will likely get a 6 or 7 if they're decent.
But to get an 8 or more, the girl has to really be exceptional. I don't give 8s or 9s out lightly. And I don't believe in 10s at all. The highest rating I've ever given a girl is 9.2.
True. You don't have to look very hard to find women who are physically attractive. Because they are fairly common, and I've been with enough to know what it's like to be with a secksy lady, other traits get more importance. A really good looking woman to me is a 7. If she is smart, funny, can hold a conversation, and is a naughty girl in the bed she can get boosted up to an 8 or 9. If she is dull or boring and just has a sh!tty I expect the world attitude, she goes down to a 6.loveshogun said:I can't think of a single 9 that I know, actually, because looking good by itself doesn't impress me anymore. A girl would have to look literally like something I'm imagining in my head.
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.